Getting smaller!

by zebra1984 30th December 2012, 9:29 pm

I swear I am getting smaller! It's so weird, I look at myself and I'm sure they look smaller now than a few weeks ago! How is this possible?! I feel I am never going to fluff or soften up :( In fact, I feel the whole fluff thing doesn't exist :'(
Read about ladies on here softening up before me when they had ops after me, My boobs seem to be stuck at the still a bit hard stage!

ARGH, frustrated! :( Sorry to rant, it's just my fella is sooooooooooooo not interested!!!

by Lucytugwell27 30th December 2012, 9:33 pm

Ahhh zebra :(

Are you sure you aren't just getting used to them?

Mine seem smaller to me than they did a week a go but if I compare a photo of the day after my surgery and how I am a week on I actually think they look a little bigger.

They are bound to feel smaller the more used to them you are xx

Hugs xx

by zebra1984 30th December 2012, 9:38 pm

I haven't taken pics of them for ages now and did the other day... compared them to last time which was about 6 weeks ago and they looked bigger then!

They just feel smaller and it's weird a bra I bought which fit fine at first now doesn't :(

I just wanna experience this fluffing and softening.

Thank you for the hugs :) xx

by Lucytugwell27 30th December 2012, 9:40 pm

I don't know what to say angel.... I know that most girls will tell you it takes time and that we are all different but I know that isn't what you want to hear :(

Try and embrace your boobs.... Maybe compare a pre op pic to how you are now....

It will be ok, I think it's normal for us to all have days like your having now xxx

by balamoryyellfruit 30th December 2012, 9:53 pm

I think youre just at a stage now where youre sort of in limbo because the swelling has now gone but youre just waiting to fluff out, even tho im pre-ba it would make sense to me that at this stage they would seem smaller for that reason but hang in there, it will happen for you and i must say that the cleavge in that avi is amazing so just keep with it hun x x x

by misf1 30th December 2012, 10:00 pm

If they're still firm hun then you still have lots of changes ahead of you. Think of it this way, those whos boobs settle quickly usually don't have as strong skin as you do, so your skin will sag less quickly. Your boobs will last longer. I had to wait 6 months before I had softness. It's a few months longer than some but it's worth the wait.

by Lucytugwell27 30th December 2012, 10:02 pm

Does that mean I'm going to sag??! :(

by mandyjs 30th December 2012, 10:17 pm

Ahh Zebra, it must be frustrating when things aren't happening as quick as you'd like. Just read Cookie's post about healing advice and I really want to take on board the bit that says don't compare recoveries!
You're still only early and I'm sure you'll get the results you want eventually!
M x

by zebra1984 30th December 2012, 10:41 pm

Thank you ladies for the replies! You're a bunch of little gems!

misf1 wrote:If they're still firm hun then you still have lots of changes ahead of you. Think of it this way, those whos boobs settle quickly usually don't have as strong skin as you do, so your skin will sag less quickly. Your boobs will last longer. I had to wait 6 months before I had softness. It's a few months longer than some but it's worth the wait.

Reading this has made me feel much better! Thank you Misf1! Hug

balamoryyellfruit I wish they looked like that all the time! Small bra
+ side shot = deceptive looking cleavage.... I still don't have on lol

xxx

by Princess_x 30th December 2012, 10:49 pm

They do look smaller as they drop down into shape, they look bigger at first when they're really round and high up x

by Kmaise3 30th December 2012, 10:50 pm

Hey boobie bud!!

It's not nice when you're feeling like this nope

Like Misf1 said, it can take time, i think it's normal to go through stages, of disliking the boobs (I do!)

How are you feeling otherwise? x

by tinkerbell24 30th December 2012, 10:53 pm

my surgeon said i would take a while to drop and fluff as i had good skin. i want to drop now!!! lol. patience is what i keep thjnking xx

by zebra1984 30th December 2012, 10:54 pm

Hi bud :) Good xmas?

Feeling OK... I find I am still looking for really padded bras that make me look bigger! Dead annoying! Being boob obsessed is so tiring!

How's you? Loving the new avi :) x

by zebra1984 30th December 2012, 10:54 pm

tinkerbell24 wrote:my surgeon said i would take a while to drop and fluff as i had good skin. i want to drop now!!! lol. patience is what i keep thjnking xx

Patience? What does that mean? lol

by tinkerbell24 30th December 2012, 10:58 pm

i know i have none lol xx

by Kmaise3 30th December 2012, 11:02 pm

zebra1984 wrote:Hi bud :) Good xmas?

Feeling OK... I find I am still looking for really padded bras that make me look bigger! Dead annoying! Being boob obsessed is so tiring!

How's you? Loving the new avi :) x

Yes good thanks, yours?

I know boob obsession is tiring! lol....
I brought some under wires yesterday, as i was given the go ahead from the surgeon! They are all lacy, with no padding at all! AND I have boobs to fill them! i'm amazed! lol.
However......it feels really strange without padding (even though i only used to wear t-shirt bras!) It almost feels like im going out naked!!! lol.

Also i'm ok...getting used to the boobs, some days i like them more than others, as one is defiantly a different shape/size (but that's due to previous assymetry!). Just got to get used to wearing under wires now...another milestone step.... shrug

by zebra1984 30th December 2012, 11:10 pm

Lovely and quiet :)

Yay for bra shopping! Must be nice being able to wear a non padded bra and still feel good!! I tried one from Bravissimo with no padding...couldn't stand it! Took it back for a refund after wearing it lol

I bet you will get used to it really quick! It's amazing how much better you feel in a nice pretty bra! I have a nice one which is a wonderbra which is actually quite pretty and not plain but ALMOST gives me a cleavage! Only almost mind you lol still got a nice big gap between.

Think, you need to try and learn to love the asymmetry and I need to learn to love the gap!

Hug

by misf1 30th December 2012, 11:15 pm

Lucytugwell27 wrote:Does that mean I'm going to sag??! :(

Everyone will sag hun

by Lucytugwell27 30th December 2012, 11:16 pm

Really?! Like saggy saggy? I didn't sign up for that? I'm too young for saggy boobs :(

by misf1 30th December 2012, 11:22 pm

They wont sag now, over time they will though. Unless you're very lucky and don't age. If they have pills for that I'm so taking them. I'd like to look ageless or at least slow it down.

by Lucytugwell27 30th December 2012, 11:25 pm

I guess when that starts to happen it could be time for BA too,... And that will be my anti ageing solution :)

Thanks misf1.... Had a minor freak out then x

by Kmaise3 30th December 2012, 11:31 pm

misf1....when you find them, let me know please!

Zebra....our new years resolution....LOVE the boobs! Flash

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