doubts and worries

hi girls

I dont know if its cos I've booked now but lately I've been having alsorts of thoughts about if I'm doing the right thing getting my boobs done! I'm thinking spending all that money and putting myself through a op that isnt really nessasery is it worth it? I know I have wanted a ba for a few years but I cant help wonder if I'm doing the right thing.

I was talking to my friend the other day (I know people can be jealous) and she was saying how her boobs give her back act, the problems she has finding bras to fit and how clothes never fit cos of her boobs. (shes a e/f) then when we were all having a drink and messing around her and another friend were messing around and laughing about my ba. I thought they were just having a laugh but I cant help but think there was more to it!

Then these the transport side of it, my friend who was gonna take me cant now cos these no-one to have her little boy and there isnt really anyone else to ask. I'm going to have to tell mya that I may have to cancel if they cant arrange transport for me cos its adding extra pressure.

Sorry for the rant, I just feel a bit down about it, I know if or when I have my boobs I'll be much happier but right now I cant see that far ahead. xxx

and another thing I forgot to say I'm worried that 525cc is going to make me look really top heavy and much bigger than an F. x

I had these worries the night before op but knew 100% i wanted to do it. If your unsure at all, i wouldnt go ahead. You need to be 100%.. what size are you now? x

I'm a 34c/d at the moment, I know if I dont go ahead with it I'll feel like **naughty word** on my holiday, like I did last year. x

pinkbabe its only natural to have concerns i did to it tok my 10 years to decide and i had the money i was just to scared till i joined a few breast forums and see how nice they look im 32f/ff and mine arent heavy at all and mine look a e cup as i started off with a b u can always downsize i did i was going to have bigger but choose smaller on the day mr.singhs good he will listen to u although i think 525 is a good size on your frame im sorry about your friends mybe it is jealousy i got all sorts of comments when i told people i was having ba my mum was the only supportive one i actually wanted to only look a d but my mum said go big bigger as u might regret it im glad i did tbh im really happy with them now
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i think your going to look realy big as your starting with alot do u want them to look really big?
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If you're not 100% about it then maybe you should leave it for a later date if you're also going to have problems with transport etc, but it is normal to think about it and have doubts.

I wouldnt worry about what your friends say either, because BA large breasts usually look better than real big breasts since they dont sag (so they might be a bit jealous).

525's should take you to around a 34F maybe even FF if its about 150cc for every size. How tall are you? xx

natalia wrote:i think your going to look realy big as your starting with alot do u want them to look really big?
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Hmmm I do like the big look yeah, I suppose I'm just worried that I'll look to big. x

MsTeews wrote:If you're not 100% about it then maybe you should leave it for a later date if you're also going to have problems with transport etc, but it is normal to think about it and have doubts.

I wouldnt worry about what your friends say either, because BA large breasts usually look better than real big breasts since they dont sag (so they might be a bit jealous).

525's should take you to around a 34F maybe even FF if its about 150cc for every size. How tall are you? xx

Yeah I am about 99% sure its what I want but I'm just worried I'll end up a bit to big, these 1% of me that is unsure. With the transport issue I dont think that will change even if I leave it a few months to be honest. I'm around about 5,3 or 4 which is whats making me think 525 might be a tad to much. x

newboobies had that size she as b/c b4 hand hers look great i think u would have to get into the 800cc to look huge to b honest libby had 1200cc and hers are huge now so i dont think u have nowt to worry about with 525 i was freting over sizes to so i rang my co ordianter and she said u can come try on diff sizes or speak to mr.singh again and he was fine that i only wanted 410 no bigger
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I wouldnt worry about what your friends say either, because BA large breasts usually look better than real big breasts since they dont sag (so they might be a bit jealous).

yeah thats true alot of my busty friends keep saying god i waish mine were pert and round like yours
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why dont u switch to 460 then i think ur still look really big with that
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I had second thoughts before booking. Wondered if I was making the wrong decision and had family not happy. But you've got to do what's best for you and no one else.

If you're starting out a c/d cup and having over 500cc you could very well end up an f or bigger. If you don't want to be too big then maybe go for a smaller implant. Anything you have will make you bigger it just all depends on how big you want to be.

As for your friends I'm sure it's just the green eyed monster coming out. Do it for you when you feel ready. It's not something to decide lightly.

I think you'll be really big with 525.. when you said you were having that size i thought you were like an A to start with. I think you'll be more like GG/H so i would go smaller if you want an F x

If you want to look an F I think he's given you the right size lovely.

I also had Singh, and he knows his stuff. I said I wanted to look a D cup, and I think I look a D. I actually measure a G... but i would have been so dissapointed if I'd gone for any less. He also wouldn't give me 380cc even though the girls on another forum told me to make him give me it... he just wouldn't. So he knows the best size to give you without compromising the 'look'

I also felt nervous, I was more nervous about booking than the op! It's a lot of money, and a surgical procedure, so nerves are a good sign, and shows you're completely normal

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pinkbabe2008 wrote:Yeah I am about 99% sure its what I want but I'm just worried I'll end up a bit to big, these 1% of me that is unsure. With the transport issue I dont think that will change even if I leave it a few months to be honest. I'm around about 5,3 or 4 which is whats making me think 525 might be a tad to much. x

I'm 5ft 3 and the 410's are in proportion to my body but are not on the small side. It depends what look you like and your frame. As I'm quite broad shouldered I can pull off the 410's ok.

I think with 100cc more I would probably start looking top heavy since I'm short. Its just hard to know because some girls look big with 275's its pretty much a guessing game xx

pinkbabe2008 wrote:hi girls

I dont know if its cos I've booked now but lately I've been having alsorts of thoughts about if I'm doing the right thing getting my boobs done! I'm thinking spending all that money and putting myself through a op that isnt really nessasery is it worth it? I know I have wanted a ba for a few years but I cant help wonder if I'm doing the right thing.

Hi i was exactly the same as you with all the worries. I was originally booked for beginning of April, but i cancelled as i got myself into such a state that i was making my self ill.

A month later and i am now starting to go through with it again. I now feel 100% confident that it is the right thing for me to do and i am not worried at all.

Maybe if you are having doubts you could always postpone for a while?

If your friends are being a bit nasty, maybe they are not such good friends to have? They are probably just very very jelous and if they had the money they would probably be booking for a BA themselves.

Good luck hun

Hi,

It's completely normal to feel this way.

A few days before my BA, I got myself worked into a complete state. I was terrified and doubting whether I should go ahead and about the money etc.

Now, I'm so pleased I went ahead with it. I feel much happier and confident in myself. My figure looks better and clothes fit better.

I think your friends are jealous. Fake boobs aren't the same as real ones as they stay where they are supposed to stay and aren't as heavy.

I've heard that Singh is really good so I'd try and relax hun and enjoy it as it's all over so quick!!

Good luck!

Marie

PS I'm sure Mya can arrange transport for you.