Bra off po?

Hey girls,

I have only taken off my bra when I am changing it over for a clean one, steri strip change and have had a peek at them for 2 mins a couple of times. I feel worried that I am doing damage, like they are going to fall to the bottom or sides and ruin my lovely new boobs.

I think I may be overly paranoid because of bottoming out last time but worry I am doing harm when there out for even 2 mins I am so over the moon with how they are looking now and want them to stay that way that I am terrified of moving

Awww I can totally empathise with how you're feeling Butterfly I think after having revision that wasn't opted for you do become really paranoid during your recovery. Even more so than after your first BA because after being one of the 'unlucky ones' you just hope with all your heart that this time things will be different and you'll be able to enjoy them as much as everyone else.

I even got to a place were I found I was actually jealous of other womens recovery who had had surgery at the same time as myself, because my healing took so long compared to theirs and I'd actually prepared myself for more surgery all over again.

It's hard to have gone through what you have sweetheart, but this time.. Things will be very different xx

Thanks cookie, That's exactly how i feel and the fact my surgeon says this is the last surgery i should have makes me even more nervous about it going right. I am currently waiting to have tests to see why I bleed so easily. My ps and the anaesatist said to avoid further surgery at all costs. Every time i have had an op i heamorage and have been advised to wear an s.o.s necklace or bracelet just incase i am ever in an accident and they don't know my prob with bleeding THanks for the hugs xx

All the more understandable why you're feeling this way babe . Really hope you get some positive news back from the blood tests hun. I know a lot of clinics aren't prepared to operate in private clinics due to the lack of intensive care, but if it helps I know BMI do offer cosmetic surgery to those with more complicated health issues. They can do this because they have all facilities available to them at the hospital should any complication arise during/after surgery.

I'm not saying you'll need to look into this, but just thought it may offer some reassurance that you 'may' have another option. I know of one other member who had problems with her blood clotting too here but she was very aware of her condition and the only place that would do her surgery was BMI and the poor girl got so many no's before she finally got a yes from them. With private practices they probably have to be over cautious due to the lack of facilities. Downside is that you'd have to choose another surgeon though.

How's this for paranoid for ya!! I've already been researching clinics that would deal with problematic health conditions. I still haven't heard back from Transform yet about whether or not they'd be willing to operate on me, so if not, I've already started looking into possible places that could help if necessary and it just made me feel better knowing there were options available, albeit that I too have only found that BMI would help. I don't know about your condition but thought I'd pass on what I found to you also in the hope it might help you too Butterfly, in the unlikely event you should need it. xx

Thank you hun I catn't believe you havnt had a reply from transform yet! Thanks for the info on Bmi, its weird because as you know i was originally due to have my surgery the week before at my original hospital which was the guildford nuffield but got cancelled and rescheduled at the London Bmi! Was that fate!xx

Blimey! I very much believe in fate Butterfly and with your condition I'd say fate definately lead you there for sure! You couldn't have been in better hands could you!!!

Thanks for the hug from you too. I am getting a little tired of being fobbed off now. Gonna call again tomorrow and see what they come up with then xx

Me too! Good luck with the phone call, give them what for xx

Thanks hun... I intend to lol. I think I've waited more than long enough now. xx