3 days to go, confused!!

Hey ladies!

I'm starting to feel really excited for the big day but think the nerves are starting to set in too!

My boyfriend is fed up of me constantly talking about it and no longer answers any of my questions, I just get grunts and I feel a bit rubbish

I'm feeling a bit guilty when I first wake up but I know this is something I really want. And the whole size thing is driving me crazy!!

I want really big boobs but I know that a big implant won't look the same as a big natural boob. I'm driving myself mad thinking about whether to ask for 525cc.

Looking at Heidi Montag though her implants look so silly for her frame and I don't want to look like that. I've gone boob insane.

Help please, lots of love xxx

im having the same worry with implant size i dont want to go too big and look stupid, just think of it like this its easier to go bigger in the future than it is to go smaller xx

I am sorry you are feeling this way. I felt very excited before both my b s's. Maybe because I had decided my implant size at my consult that I didnt really have anything to be anxious about. I hope you get excited soon hun and good luck xx

oh and i have read that mr clarke prefers the more natural look and wouldnt do it if it would look stupid a woman i spoke 2 there even said he had refused to do a girls surgery because he didnt think she needed it so get his opinion xx

I'm sure you'll have discussed the look you're after with your surgeon Parisgirl... bare in mind that Hedi Montag's body is different to your own hun and what isn't right for her, doesn't necessarily mean it's not going to be right for you.

It's VERY normal for the 'pre-op jitters' to start kicking in round about now lovely and soooo many of us have been there including myself who had a massive panic attack over the possibility of slight symmastia that my surgeon warned me may be a possibility for a while, I was out of my mind with worry to the point I Emailed him and said I'm signing nothing that states I might have symmastia hahaha. I had nothing to worry about. Surgeons just say the worst scenarios to cover their own back, 'cept I shout louder to cover mine hahaha.

I'm sure you'll be fine. You'll have time before your surgery to go through sizing again with your surgeon and if you're very concerned maybe call, Email and request your surgeon take a couple of sized implants into theatre with him so that you can feel a little more comforted that your surgeon will have a choice at hand for you, lots of us do that and surgeons are generally fine with it. You really are going to be OK though lovely.

Reading the stories of a;; the women here who have come back from their surgeries and very kindly left their story for pre-oppers like yourself to read and get comfort from is a great uplifter! Reading how happy they are when they woken up and all those nerves have blown away is sooooo good for the soul and so calming hun, so maybe have a read through some of those, they really do help. xx

Thank you so much ladies, I do feel a bit excited just wish I wasn't getting told off by my boyfriend for talking about it. Think it's making me feel worse.

I do want a natural look but I also want them to be big and I'm not sure what I'm getting. I've been told to buy 34F or 36E sports bras but I've read that implants measure bigger than they look so worried I'm not going to get the look I want even though I've discussed it with Mr Clarke.

I do trust him too, he was so nice and I've read good things about him and the work I've seen of his looks amazing! I know it's natural to worry, I feel like I want to talk to him again! I haven't got his email though.

I've seen some 525cc implants too and they look lovely but I guess it depends on the person too.

Transform said they stock all implants up to 525cc so I can change on the day.

X

Parisgirl23 wrote:Transform said they stock all implants up to 525cc so I can change on the day.

There ya go then babe! You'll have time before your surgery on your BA day to go through everything all over again with Mr Clarke before you go to theatre, so don't worry lovely. You know there are options there for Mr Clarke, if when you're on the table he doesn't feel the 525s are right for you, so just enjoy these last few days of your build up hun, 'cos when you look back'after' your BA, you'll realise this time in your life really is the BEST! So really make the most of parisgirl!

woohoooooo 3 days to go!!! xx

Thank you so much, I wish I could give you a huge cuddle right now!

I'm naturally a huge worrier, I was panicking they won't have them in stock and every possible bad outcome when yes I do need to relax as I'm getting something I've dreamt about having for yearrrs!

I think I'm glad I've got a surgeon who likes the natural look though.

Thank yoooou xxxxx

haha! Glad you're feeling better hun, tomorrow you can do a victory run around the living room 'cos then you'll only have 2 DAYS TO GOOOOOO! YAAAAYYYYYYYYY! XX

Haha yaaaay!

I think moving house has stopped me getting excited too, I've been so stressed about getting my new apartment perfect before my op.
Almost there now so will be done tomorrow and can get all my bits n bobs on Monday.

I'm so happy I have you to chat to / keep me sane.

So excited xx

LOL you dont do things by halves do you getting your new appartment right before your BA haha! But how lovely for you to have a new home and new boobs both at the same time! - You're a very lucky girl parisgirl, so count your blessings and drink in every moment and enjoy all the good things that have come your way!

What a great year for you hey! xx

I think you've had so much on what with moving home and getting everything organised for your BA it's absolutely no wonder you're feeling this way - you are only human after all!

You've already been advised regarding the implants so I won't repeat anybody... just ensure that for after Tuesday you're stocked up on microwave meals (or somebody to cook), lots of nice snacks, plenty of clean comfy clothes and as many box sets and dvds as you can find! You will definitely need to focus on relaxing x

Just thought I'd pop back in

2 MORE DAYS parisgirl!!!!!

Haha, if you're not feeling that excitement yet!... I'll getcha there babe! heeeheeeee

Aww thank you ladies, this was so nice to wake up and read!

I'm definitely getting excited, woke up and had mixed feelings but I'm definitely looking forward to it!! I've lost about 5lbs in stress so hope I don't get told off on Tuesday. Going to just eat all day today and tomorrow. My bf noticed I've lost weight and said my boobs look small but not on Tuesday haha!

Got a few more boxes of stuff to unpack today but the apartment is sparkly clean so I'm nearly there. Going to do a big food shop in a bit and going to get books and DVDs etc tomorrow. Think once I've got everything all ticked off my list I will be soo excited.

Thanks for boosting my excitement xxxx

My new pad !

Almost unpacked now, just gotta Hoover and mop tomorrow and also ignore all the bin bags of my botfriend's stuff he hasn't unpacked.

Got all my wipes n bits for tues, still found no sports bra so gonna pop to M&S tomorrow. Asda was sold out of 50 shades of grey too!

X

Don't suppose you have room for one more there do you?

Apartment is looking lovely!! Pleased to hear you're feeling a little more excited x

*Alice* wrote:Don't suppose you have room for one more there do you?

Apartment is looking lovely!! Pleased to hear you're feeling a little more excited x

Definitely, I'll smuggle you into the spare room. Actually think my boyfriend would love it if you were here so he didn't have to listen to my boobie talk haha.

Aww thank you, feeling really excited now!

X

Your new place looks fab hunni!!
Glad your feeling more excited! We are all excited for you!
Def need to try & get 50 shades for your recovery. will def take your mind off of anything going on around u! Haha!
Hope you find some bras 2mw!
Hugs xx

Gillian1808 wrote:Your new place looks fab hunni!!
Glad your feeling more excited! We are all excited for you!
Def need to try & get 50 shades for your recovery. will def take your mind off of anything going on around u! Haha!
Hope you find some bras 2mw!
Hugs xx

Aww thank you so much hunni! I'm so excited now weee!

Haha I will definitely be buying it tomorrow, that made me laugh.

Have you booked any more consultations?

Big hugs xx

Love your new home babe - Looks very cosy just a new pair of boobs to add to it now and it'll be perfect! haha. xx

Hey hunni!
Nah not booked any yet. Working a 12.5 hour shift 2mw then off Tuesday/Wednesday so gonna get booking more consults then!
Happy bra shopping 2mw!
hugs xxx

cookie wrote:Love your new home babe - Looks very cosy just a new pair of boobs to add to it now and it'll be perfect! haha. xx

Yaaaay not long now till me n the new boobies will be here. I'm really excited now and just found out one of my friends is getting a BA in a few weeks too .

Thanks so much for getting me to this point. Excited !

XXX

You're welcome lovely... Now just enjoy xx