Too Many Women Staring

Ever since I got the boobs done, whenever I go to the beach or public pool, I can't help but notice the staring I get from women. It's like their eyes can't stop looking at them when they're in a bikini. I love wearing bikini's, but I just feel like I'm being judged every time I walk by them. Do others have this problem too?

The problem got worse earlier today when I took my nephew to a public pool today and a woman who took her family there would not stop staring at them for like 2 hours! It made me very uncomfortable, and I had no idea how to handle the situation.

I am really sorry about that... But im my opinion
they look at your boobies because they want their
to be as fab as yours...
To be honest I always been as flat as my back
and couldnt resist not looking at the other girls's
boobies after they had BA.
I think thats a compliment hunni...!!!!

But soon gonna have mine to look at... :)))

Perhaps she was admiring them :thumbs:

Pre op I recall there being two occasions when I was working with girl's who's boobs were just too good to be true... I was probably staring on those occasions while I had the are they real or fake debate in my head. X

I now perceive much more attention than I did pre BA... but have gone from a DD (but looked like a C!) to a G and wonder if actually I had attention before but just didn't realise it, and now I have a full and bouncy chest I'm much more aware of people looking?

I went topless on holiday before and suddenly my sunbed seemed to be the main walkway back to the hotel, there was a path near by which kinda freaked me out as they stopped using it. One old bloke didn't take his eyes off them. I was creeped out and put my top on. I wouldn't have minded women having a stare but creepy men was awful. I won't be doing that again

LOL@misf1

I think it takes a while for us to become 'comfortable' in our new skin.... and boobs ALWAYS attract attention I doubt there's a woman here who hasn't had a boobie perv (have they misf1, ya boobvert ).

But until YOU feel comfortable with your new shape, you're going to notice every look that comes your way, which can be magnified by how you're feeling about your BA right now.

As your boobs become more and more a part of you and less of a 'BA', you stop looking for who's looking at you if you get what I mean, you're comfortable with who you are and are distracted by what you're doing than looking to see if anyone is noticing you've had a BA.

You'll always get stares, don't get me wrong, breast augmentated boobs always have that perfection about them we all strive for - both men and women!, but you'll soon stop taking it offensively and getting self conscious about it and turn that around, to a smile, a shrug, then a nice smug grin as you lie back on your sunbed lol.

Hope you understand what I'm trying to say Puma, I haven't put it across to well, but I hope you get where I'm coming from. xx

*holds hand up* Oh god, I am one of those women I cant help myself, if I spot a pair of boobs that (I think) look like they may be implants, I just cant help but keep taking a peek, lol!!!!!
I would like to say (in my defence) that it is in a very positive way, and never in a negative way! I am usually green with envy!!!!

Same as me... ha ha
I just love boobies... cant help it. :)

I'm not being pervy or owt but I always have a good look at peoples boobs and I'm really sorry puma but yours are just so amazing they're like the Bermuda triangle - I know it probably makes you feel self conscious and that's awful but they're so tit-alating, it's definitely a compliment, there's nothing bad anyone could say about them 2!!
See I love boobs.

The cashier at aldi was staring at mine while scanning my corale beans lol, it was an amazing feeling having something someone else wanted for once and not the other way round!

Hi Puma.
I'm sorry to say but i'm a boob gawper. I've just been looking at your avi for 20mins lol. When i see a great pair of boobs i can't help but stare. I think it's because i've never had any to look at. Once i've had my BA i'll never be out of the mirror.
Don't feel self conscious, you should be proud of other women admiring your boobs. I can't wait till they're looking at mine.
xxx

Jealousy/admiration/are-they-aren't they stares... Can't wait for them!!
Be proud love they are getting any of those types of glances! I know I will be

zulka111 wrote:I am really sorry about that... But im my opinion
they look at your boobies because they want their
to be as fab as yours...
To be honest I always been as flat as my back
and couldnt resist not looking at the other girls's
boobies after they had BA.
I think thats a compliment hunni...!!!!

I know what it's like to be flatter than your back. You're right! I should definitely take this as a complement and not be so negative about it!

zulka111 wrote:But soon gonna have mine to look at... :)))

Good for you, Hun!!!!!

kay wrote:Perhaps she was admiring them :thumbs:

Hehe, true!

altw wrote:Pre op I recall there being two occasions when I was working with girl's who's boobs were just too good to be true... I was probably staring on those occasions while I had the are they real or fake debate in my head. X

Haha, I've been there hun! Kinda makes me think of my situation at the pool differently! Thanks for the response!

LittleMissBiker wrote:I now perceive much more attention than I did pre BA... but have gone from a DD (but looked like a C!) to a G and wonder if actually I had attention before but just didn't realise it, and now I have a full and bouncy chest I'm much more aware of people looking?

Wow! G cup! Good for you. I want to get a 2nd opp to hopefully be a G cup.

misf1 wrote:I went topless on holiday before and suddenly my sunbed seemed to be the main walkway back to the hotel, there was a path near by which kinda freaked me out as they stopped using it. One old bloke didn't take his eyes off them. I was creeped out and put my top on. I wouldn't have minded women having a stare but creepy men was awful. I won't be doing that again

OMG! That would make me so uncomfortable!

cookie wrote:LOL@misf1

I think it takes a while for us to become 'comfortable' in our new skin.... and boobs ALWAYS attract attention I doubt there's a woman here who hasn't had a boobie perv (have they misf1, ya boobvert ).

But until YOU feel comfortable with your new shape, you're going to notice every look that comes your way, which can be magnified by how you're feeling about your BA right now.

As your boobs become more and more a part of you and less of a 'BA', you stop looking for who's looking at you if you get what I mean, you're comfortable with who you are and are distracted by what you're doing than looking to see if anyone is noticing you've had a BA.

You'll always get stares, don't get me wrong, breast augmentated boobs always have that perfection about them we all strive for - both men and women!, but you'll soon stop taking it offensively and getting self conscious about it and turn that around, to a smile, a shrug, then a nice smug grin as you lie back on your sunbed lol.

Hope you understand what I'm trying to say Puma, I haven't put it across to well, but I hope you get where I'm coming from. xx

That put this whole situation perfectly into words. Thanks!

Definately jealousy lol i cant wait to get the stares from men. But men rather than woman lol. Becos i have always been tiny and only been able to attract the butt boys lol

Hellooo ladies!

Bird, it is definitely because people are admiring them!! - I know this because I do it. I have even been on nights out and approached a women with fake boobs and told her they looked fab, she then told me they were fake (which I already knew) but they still looked AMAZING!!

Want, want, want!!!

I do it too if I see a woman with perfect breasts, 'cause I'm wondering if they're real. I try not to lol, I think it would make me uncomfortable too if someone did that. Its just the green eyed boobie envy monster