Getting teased for small boobs!

puma419 wrote:

altw wrote:Shame it happens to do many of us... People wouldn't take the p*ss over a bad birthmark or something so why do they think it's ok to put us down for the size of our boobs!! If this guy suddenly shows an interest after my BA he's definitely getting told where he can stick it! :heehee:

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Haha, something tells me he's gonna regret ever making fun of your boobs!

Haha more than likely, I'm trying to keep it quiet at work but if they figure it out they'll probably think he traumatised me into it! I might take my old chicken fillets and throw them at him....awkward!

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I had it constantly thru my teenage years and beyond I also had ginger hair which was even worst growing up I got into loads of fights over people calling me names anyway I dyed my hair and brought me some boobies my daughter has ginger hair and I'm fiercely protective over her knowing full well how damaging people's comments can be I just hope she develops more boobs than I did and stands up for herself x I'd say I suffer with anger problems and low self asteem because of how nasty people can be x

Do you know it seriously p*sses me off that people think they have the right to make personal comments about your body. You're a beautiful young woman altw who doesn't deserve to be the butt of anyones jokes!

Sounds like from what you said about him fussing around you that he felt very ashamed of what he said and so he should. It's a great bloody pity there isn't a vaccination for nastiness in this country!

I had a friend who bought me an African figurine, it was a hideous thing, a woman made from wood wearing a grass skirt and had long saggy boobs. We'd not long been home from holidaying together when I got this 'present' from her and as she visited only a fe times, it would be hidden away till her visit and then be on display.... I was later to find out this as an 'in-joke' between her and her partner, I'd breast fed two children and this had took it's toll on my breasts, they weren't as bad as the figurine lol but they'd lost volume and fullness from the top of the breast and weren't what they were, I'll also point out this woman was 10 years younger than me, my hubbys friends younger model! I took her into the fold, made her feel welcome, they spent weekends at my house and all the while they were laughing at me..... Shame on them I told them when I found out and gave her back the figurine, there was no laughing then I can tell you as they packed their bags back into the car. I don't think I've seen anyone skulk away with bloody tears in her eyes like she did! They were never welcome in my home again and I found out they split up not long after. I doubt because of me, probably because she was such a bitch!

Now I've had implants, only those closest to me 'know' for sure I've had my boobs done.... I get indirect comments no and sometimes the odd 'boob joke joke' thrown in which I know is to get a rise from me.... They don't get one.



I think you often have to get a tough skin once you've had a boob job too babe, I know that may sound harsh, but someone always feels they have a right to make comments about womens breasts... even women themselves!

Sometimes it's through jealousy, they're envious or they're just plain old nasty! and just sometimes, it may be a nice comment... but for me, my boobs are no go area and definately weren't up for debate pre-BA and they certainly arent now...

So be prepared altw..... there's always one with something to say. So just rise above it gorgeous, no-one deserves to get the results they're after and when it backfires... the jokes usually on them. xxxxx

shirtripper wrote:I had it constantly thru my teenage years and beyond I also had ginger hair which was even worst growing up I got into loads of fights over people calling me names anyway I dyed my hair and brought me some boobies my daughter has ginger hair and I'm fiercely protective over her knowing full well how damaging people's comments can be I just hope she develops more boobs than I did and stands up for herself x I'd say I suffer with anger problems and low self asteem because of how nasty people can be x

If ever your daughter has doubts about whether she's beautiful for her hair colour just tell her to Google Lily Cole! I wouldn't be a teenager again for any amount of money, people always find something to bully someone over!


Cookie that woman sounds absolutely horrible! I can imagine that she'll always struggle to maintain any genuine friendships if that is how she treats people! As for the jabs about boob jobs, I think it will irritate me more than upset me. I've always felt low self esteem about my boobs with how they are now. I can imagine I'll get comments about being fake, or opinions that I'm shallow to put myself through an operation I don't need etc but at the end of the day I'm paying for something most people get for free. I've waited a long time for those boobies so I'll be pretty proud of them even if they are all silicone

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Poor you...yes I know that experience well! Have been teased all my life my family and friends about my small boobs, especially my sister who has huge ones.
Havent told anybody apart from 2 close friends that I have had mine done, but am waiting for my sister to start making her jokes again.... I shall definitely have to at least make a remark about mine not being saggy!
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Have none of them noticed you've had them done yet? I bet her reaction will be priceless when she realises you've got a nice perky pair!! It seems to be a common thing with those closest to you often being the ones for the nasty comments! My aunty once flicked my bra strap and asked "what are you wearing one of those for?!", b*tch!

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No I haven't really been out and about yet but my mum did keep staring at my chest suspiciously at the weekend! I said to my partner people will probably think I am pregnant as that's the only time they have ever been big and have not been drinking due to painkillers!
I will tell people if they ask but feel a bit embarrassed about telling people as its always been such a source of embarrassment in the past. Am pretty proud of them now though so we are going shopping tomorrow as just booked a holiday and can't wait to wear a bikini for the first time since I was about 12! X

Ohhh I so know what you mean about it being an embarrassing area, though not so much now I'm quite open about it, but when I decided to tell my mumIi wanted a BA I was too embarrassed to come out with the words so text her telling her we needed to talk then threw a leaflet at her! Now I don't shut up to her about the excitement! You should feel proud, you've paid to get the body of your dreams and it's not something every body gets! It's also a major excuse for buying too many bikinis haha :D x