Need reassurance please

by energy 15th May 2009, 8:25 pm

Hi everyone
I am reasonably new to this forum having had an uplift and BA 19 days ago. At first I was really happy with the shape, the scars, the size everything but the last couple of days I have hit major paranoia - I am worrying about everything - what if I get cc, what if the implant leaks, what if the scar gets infected, what if the implant stops a lump in my boob being detected, should I massage, shouldn't I AAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGHHHH - I am doing my own head in.

Is this normal or do I just need to get a grip and get on with it because there's nothing I can do about it now. I don't regret having it done I just wish I could stop thinking about it all the time.
Please someone tell me I'm not losing the plot!
Thanks girls

by Jessica 15th May 2009, 9:10 pm

As a pre-op girl I'm not qualified to say how long the paranoia lasts but I'm sure it goes away some time! I think it's natural to worry about stuff, if you didn't you wouldn't be human. I'm sure a post-op girlie will be along soon enough to put your mind at rest xx

by littlemisstiny1 15th May 2009, 9:12 pm

Hi, I'm still pre-op but I think it's probably perfectly normal.. You've just been through a major operation, your system is still probably processing lots of drugs, GA and dealing with an implant which it was not expecting!

Give it time, I think we all need to recover emotionally from an op like this as well as physically so don't be too hard on yourself, you aren't losing the plot at all, things will calm down soon when you adjust to your new boobies!

(Mind u I will probably be exactly the same as you in a few weeks so repeat all this back to me please!)

by misf1 15th May 2009, 9:22 pm

I think your normal as I've been thinking the same things. I'm a bit of a worrier. It's a big thing to go through and now it's done we're probably scared that something will go wrong and our new assets taken away. Dont worry too much,I find it helps to look forward to things to take my mind off the worry. Have a look at a few new bras that you will be able to buy soon. Try and focus on the positive.

by annefinackapan 16th May 2009, 6:42 pm

Dont worry your just going through the totally obsessed with BA stage!! You will worry less and less everyday as you realise they are still lovely and everything is fine. Post here as much as you like as we all completely empathise and will never get bored...
as the obsession with everything boobish continues! Hysterical

xx

by _Carrie_ 16th May 2009, 6:48 pm

I agree! I was totally obsessed with the fact I'd had a ba - could think of nothing else, but 3 months on, I'm quite blasé about it! I've even been considering "coming out" and telling people - still only considering it but all of a sudden it doesn't seem like such a big deal anymore. I've stopped worrying and they almost feel part of me now.

Mind you I still perve at myself ALL the time in the mirror....still can't believe that body looking back at me is mine after all these years of wanting it!!!

Don't worry, the paranoia will fade

C x

by BlondeBarbie 16th May 2009, 9:08 pm

I didnt feel like that after my BA and i still dont.. its strange as i get terrible anxiety sometimes but over "silly" things.. everyones diff tho so theres nothing wrong in worrying but id try not to think about stuff going wrong x

by **nads** 16th May 2009, 9:19 pm

energy wrote:Hi everyone
I am reasonably new to this forum having had an uplift and BA 19 days ago. At first I was really happy with the shape, the scars, the size everything but the last couple of days I have hit major paranoia - I am worrying about everything - what if I get cc, what if the implant leaks, what if the scar gets infected, what if the implant stops a lump in my boob being detected, should I massage, shouldn't I AAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGHHHH - I am doing my own head in.

Is this normal or do I just need to get a grip and get on with it because there's nothing I can do about it now. I don't regret having it done I just wish I could stop thinking about it all the time.
Please someone tell me I'm not losing the plot!
Thanks girls

Try to think positive hun, positive thinking can help you heal better! Stressing is not good for you, congrats on your BA by the way Flash

x

by Mia 16th May 2009, 10:55 pm

Yeh!! positive thinking!!! You will drive yourself crazy for no good reason otherwise. You have a good result just try and enjoy. You are very early days still too. We have all gone through the b.a. now, know the low risks and if anything should ever happen to any of us it can be rectified. So no you are not losing the plot!! but, happy thoughts are better for all us and help to appreciate our new found Flash

Take it easy Hug

xx

by renz 17th May 2009, 6:52 am

light some incense and relax babe... you'll only do yourself a mischief if u panic...You'll be fine. I did get a little anxious, but mainly when i had poorly days, now i'm fine and loving my new pert boobies

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