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went out last night to town with my best m8,we bumped into a guy who my friend had been on a date with b4 and she doesnt really like him or fancy him. he came up to me and told me that he told her that his mate fancied me and she told them i have fake tits. she said she didnt say that and that she only told the guy becuase she was worried about me and had no one to talkto.i was so upet....its my business..confide in me if you worried! i dont want anyone really to know i've had implants i feel embarassed by it. it really *p**sd me off when they guy said he thought i did it for vanity !>...i was under developed and flat witht tuberous breast...i paye 4grand just to look and feel normal! it wasnt so i can look like glamour model you see in nuts and zoo!
still feel a bit blah about it!hey ho life goes on.people are idiots who judge us for having implants,they dont know the whole story behind why we have had them done.they assume that we had nice boobs beforer and just making them bigger becuase we are vain. wish the idiots thought more about our emotions and what we have been through instead of looking and saying *FAKE* xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

OMG! How horrible. You're right,your mate should have talked to you,or at least someone you both know who already knew.

Some men are (w)ankers,don't take it to heart. Just tell your mate to keep it zipped in future,it's up to you whether you tell people or not. Luckily most people who know about mine are very cool about it,but I'm dreading the day I get slagged for it. Worst thing is,people seem to think it's acceptable to say it to your face. I think I'll just come back with something along the lines of "Ooh,my surgeon does noses/lipo/whatever too,do you want his number?!"

PS..Is that you in your avatar? They look awesome! Please tell me that's a padded bra,I have major boob greed,and even people with smaller implants/cup size look so much bigger than me! x

Is she really a 'friend' if she is going on about your business to other people. Its private and know-one has the right to talk about it without consulting you or even talking to you about it!! As long as you know why it was done its doesnt matter what other people think as long as your happy hun!! x x x

she my best mate...i dont feel like a really have any proper friends lol :(
im small framed and so impalnts look big ;)but it slightly padded push up bra from primark ahahaha :P xxxxx

Shallow people they are Rosy!!
When I was 17 I heard my stuck up Godfather say to my Dad at a family party 'Your Jaclyn would be the perfect woman if only she'd have a nose job!!!'!! Although it was definately not the sole reason I had my nose done this certainly contributed!!
So last week I was round at my moms and low and behold the old fart walks in and knowing about my surgery from my mom makes another sexist comment!
My reply 'Yes thanks Uncle M, I love my new look, I'd strongly recommend my surgeon but unfortunately they can't surgically enhance a personality'
Not heard a peep from him since! Lol

My mum told other members of m. FAmily I had a boob job! I wasn't impressed. Don't really want my 70 year old grandparents knowing my business when they don't seem to give a **naughty word** about me... And for my mum to spread my business was very disappointing. I know how you feel hun. YOu soon learn who ur real friends are and who you can trust. Don't worry about what others think. I couldn't care less. The people who know me and who I believe to be true friends respect and understand my decision. You've made a positive decision to improve the way you feel, good for you. LIfe's too short. ANd you can always guarantee that us girls understand you rosygirl.. . Those who don't? F-ck em!

Ps Good for you jbird... Go girl :thumbs: x X

Sounds to me like this friend is jealous really x I know how you feel tho cos my bf told his ex wife and i wasnt impressed! Well he said she guessed why i was "having an op". All she's done is say things like why is she the same size as me and there not as big as mine! I was really **naughty word** off but now i just know she's only like that cos in fact she is jealous(she may have big ones but they fall to her knees without a bra) She also wants my man back for herself and knew that her boobs were the only thing she had on me. Don't let her get to u hun. To be honest having "fake" boobs wont bother most men anyway xxx

JBird88 wrote:I love my new look, I'd strongly recommend my surgeon but unfortunately they can't surgically enhance a personality'
Not heard a peep from him since! Lol

absolutely LOVE this - I may well have to steal it and keep it in my mind should the time come I need to defend myself against a flick-wit.



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They all sound about 12 years old. Don't even think twice about them. And your so called friend wasn't confiding in him, she was being horrible and putting you down to be spiteful. You would not confide in a boy you kinda dated and didn't really like. Hang out with your real friends cause she isn't one.

Honestly hate to say it, but that girlfriend did NOT tell him that because she was "worried about you". She probably was jealous, either of the attention you're getting from the guys friend, OR MAYBE from the attention her own guy was giving you! He may have made a comment about how you're hot or something and she responded with that.

Hope I'm wrong, but don't think I am...and btw they look great!!! You won't even be able to tell they're fake when they totally drop and fluff - i've been told mine look real - so I'd not worry about jerks like those guys!!xxxx

I know it sucks, but now she's gone and opened her mouth, there isn't much you can do about it but handle it with as much dignity as you can muster.

She's not 'worried' she's jealous and insecure in herself, and she's projecting her insecurities onto you by trying to make you look vain, or what-not, so that no-one notices her flaws because she's made you into a diversion.

Not that it really helps to hear your 'friend' isn't much of a friend... still, you should hold your head high, know you look fab, and that you don't have to justify your motive to anyone. Not her, not him, nor anyone else!

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Can't believe she told ppl about it, its not her story to tell. Urgh

I hate the fact that when ppl find out you've had them done, they always want to know..WHY. As if its any of their business, why do we need to explain to them, almost like we need to justify our discision. Recently when ppl ask me about it I simply say...oh bc I'm rich, haha, you should see the look on their faces. I always felt embarressed about having small breasts, never felt womanly, and I was a poster child for padded bra's. I don't wanne talk about it anymore and bring up bad feelings, so I shock ppl and they leave me alone, and don't ask anymore questions after that answer. lol.

Good luck hun, you're going to meet ppl that are going to be insensitive, jealous and just plain stupid, just put on a smile and say...I did it bc I wanted to and I could afford it...or...its non of your business, I don't ask you why you're stupid, its just rude.

...I would like to say things...but the girls, as always have said all the right things! She most likely was jealous of the attention that she used to get and now you're getting, so she acted out of spite, hoping to get it back on her. People can see through others that act like that, just be confident in yourself and say yep! they may not be natural bags of fat, but at least I'll never have to tuck 'em into my belt.

dont worry about what others think as long as you are happy hun, theres people in life that take enjoyment on judging others its best to just stay away from anyone who brings you down. xx

..well said Kara, lovely.

i told my boss at work and she said she did it to gossip!oh and she told her other best m8 hu i doint really talk to-i asked her y and she said 'because she is my best m8 and wont say owt' ...oh thanks...like thats how u r to me..hm i think not!!!!
girl at my work did not know bout my boob job and she gave me spray tan on friday,we had a work prty on sunday and i asked her if she could tell and she said 'no not at all i just thought u had perfecdt tits u bitch'' lol,thats nice compliment :). ohh and my ''best m8' she showed me her tits on sat night when we was out and hers arent as full as they used to be...and i dont like them,but she said when she puts her arms up they look round so i said yes because there nice and perky :) .i showed her mine,she didnt say anything then i showed her the scars and she went EWWWWWWWWWWWWWW[You must be registered and logged in to see this link.] i said dont u think they look natual? she did not answe me and said scars make her feel sick..... thnksssss. tbh the scars are only a pink faint line there not horrible you can bearly see them :S .~ its weird thou,because when we pass some girls she always says nice things about them like 'oh shes got a nice bum,love her figure,shes stunning bla bla' but i never get compliments like that :S from her xx

SHE IS SERIOUSLY JEALOUS OF YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

katyp wrote:... People can see through others that act like that, just be confident in yourself and say yep! they may not be natural bags of fat, but at least I'll never have to tuck 'em into my belt.

Katy P, i love you girl!!!!

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its hard becus the people i only have in my life is her,and my other friend who i dont really see and not that close really too, and some work mates who i just see as work m8s... dont lfeel like got any friends :( only my mum xxxx

you've got me xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

yay :) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx im 21 i shoud have loads of m8s but i dont :'( aghhhh poor me hehe

Aww Rosy, that girl is defo NOT a friend!

I know it's **naughty word** to be young and not really have any friends, I fell out with my 'best' friend a few months ago and only have one real friend but she lives back in London so I don't see her often.

Remember you always have us lot on here. x

better to have fewer very good friends than lots of rubbish ones. One of my best friends i have met on this forum..... in fact i think she is my best friend!! lol...... she's 1 and half hours away, but it could be worse xxxxxxxxxx

aw thats nice!do u meet up ??xxxx