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Do fake boobs get you more respect?

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Post by puma419 26th September 2011, 6:35 pm

One thing that I always noticed is women with nicer and perky boobs always seemed to be more respected. To the ladies on here that are post opp, do you agree? I feel like men will value your opinion more, and tend to care more when you have nicer breasts. They really seem to take everything you say to them a little different and respect any opinion you might have. Also, I almost feel like women look up to you a little more cause you almost send a subliminal message with your breasts which garnishes respect from them. Do you ladies agree?
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Post by alexandra33 26th September 2011, 6:51 pm

I've never heard of this idea before - I'm sure they will get you more attention but as for respect, I don't know, it may be a bit harder actually? When you're like a "sexpot" it may be tougher to get respect? Only in certain situations though
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Post by nikitaw86 26th September 2011, 6:57 pm

never heard they get u more respects guys prob look like there paying u more attention cause there staring at ur chest lol!! you probably have to try harder to get the respect u had before big boobies xx
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Post by welshvicci123 26th September 2011, 6:58 pm

I think it depends really I dont think you get 'respected' anymore than someone will 'normal' boobs, in some cases you get looked down on by other women as 'your boobs are not real' so they sort of look at you in a different way. Men may 'like' you more because you have fake boobs but not quite sure if they respect you more. Its a difficult one really.
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Post by kayleigh9 26th September 2011, 7:06 pm

i think a girls confidence can gain rspect...not her boobs....but you'll get loads more confidence once having your BA :)
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Post by rachemsi 26th September 2011, 7:10 pm

i agree i def think your confidence improves which in turn earns more respect xxxxxxxxxxxx
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Post by puma419 26th September 2011, 7:11 pm

I guess I looked at it as everyone knows that being attractive definitely helps with getting jobs, etc. If people are attracted to you, they'll be more likely to want to please you. Like it or not, it's true. It just seems like everyone around you will respect you more, cause the boobs give you so much more confidence. It's like they make you feel like you can accomplish anything. Did anyone notice a difference after the opp with the way people look up to you, pay attention more, and respect your opinion a lot more?
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Post by monkey 26th September 2011, 7:13 pm

I am still pre-ba, but I definitely think women with larger breasts get more respect. As I've stated in some of my previous posts, I'm 25 and married. Anytime I meet someone new, or I'm around strangers, people tend to think I'm around 16-18 years old. I get treated like a child, and older women are often rude to me! I hate it. So I think I will actually look my age once I get my implants, and hopefully will get more respect! :)

3.5 more days for me! :)
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Post by puma419 26th September 2011, 7:22 pm

monkey wrote:I am still pre-ba, but I definitely think women with larger breasts get more respect. As I've stated in some of my previous posts, I'm 25 and married. Anytime I meet someone new, or I'm around strangers, people tend to think I'm around 16-18 years old. I get treated like a child, and older women are often rude to me! I hate it. So I think I will actually look my age once I get my implants, and hopefully will get more respect! :)

3.5 more days for me! :)

Congrats! Your big day is almost here!!!!

You sound like me. I have NOTHING for a chest and both men and women look at me like I'm 12. It's impossible to get respected for your opinion when woman around you look great with D or DD chests. Even at work when I give my opinion in meetings it's not looked at as important compared to when the girls with larger chests have something to say.
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Post by monkey 26th September 2011, 8:02 pm

I feel you, lady! I completely agree!

Thank you so so much! I'm very excited!
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Post by welshvicci123 26th September 2011, 8:28 pm

I do understand the whole being treated like a 'kid' although i am only 22 and have 2 kids, im very mature for my age and have been married for 5 years, but i do get looked at alot...



Take for instance friday, I was in Asda shopping with hubby and my 2 boys, hubby turned around to me and said did you hear what that girl just said, replied no, she had said omg look at that girl are those here kids!..then we walked past her and she was with a group of people and they turned and stared at me..so i did the same to her. Its very disrespecful in my eyes.



sorry bit of a rant...dont know where there came from lol
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Post by monkey 26th September 2011, 10:28 pm

Awe hunni I'm so sorry. Don't listen to those girls. It's so silly. They were just jealous. :)

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Post by HighMaintainance 27th September 2011, 12:31 am

One thing I've always liked about boobs, is that they seem to give more attitude. I don't know if that makes sense to everyone. It does depend on the boobs but they just have more audacity. What men think can vary. It is wrong to say that bigger boobs give more respect. They can do. Sometimes they could take it away. Life is not black or white. Do's and don'ts, this and that's; these things vary. It probably seems like bigger boobs means more respect because you are the one giving them more respect, so you probably project that on other people. I feel more confident than before. I can't say I've received more respect from men.
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Post by abbie 27th September 2011, 6:08 am

i havent found people have treated me any differently at all. I generally got treated with respect before, and I do now.
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Post by Opal_Eyes 27th September 2011, 9:12 am

I think it's got a hell of a lot to do with confidence. Although I totally get where monkey and vicci are coming from. I get treated differently to my friends by a lot of people even though we're all very similar personalities and very outgoing. I'm sure it's because they have great boobs and something about that gains some sort of admiration.... which isn't right, but let's face it all of us on here love nice boobies and most other people do too. Not just the men who like to perv! Admiration or respect, either way I hope to get a bit more of it once I'm in proportion at long last!! I am generally happy with my body and figure, just not the upper bit that looks like a 10 year old boy.
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Post by misf1 27th September 2011, 3:52 pm

I don't think so being assertive and gaining peoples respect is the only way. You will find you may be more confident after your op, but people don't really treat you any differently. Some people may respect your decision to have a ba and change something you are that unhappy with, other people will respect you less. I really would not expect anyone to treat you any differently. Most people don't even notice your boobs and if men do, they are mostly just thinking nice rack.
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Post by alymomma 27th September 2011, 4:23 pm

Being the only girl that works in an IT shop of 9 guys, the only thing I
notice is that they look 'down there' more a couple of times (if I
catch them with my own eyes) than they do at my actual eyes than before
when I had my -A's (lol). I think the respect is earned for my mind,
thoughts and expressions that I bring to the table, rather than for
materialistic reasons and because I do (and hope they do too) consider
me to be a smart girl.

It's tough to be the only girl working back here, but I've made my mark
(they actually consider me 'one of the guys')...I'm sure most women are
in the same position as me, working with the typical guys who are only
out to view a girl for their looks and not their minds. Not every one,
male or female, are the same though. Just my .02 though. :)
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Post by fuzzy 28th September 2011, 8:33 pm

I can honestly say i've never looked at a woman and thought wow i really respect you because you have big perky breasts! ???? Do fake boobs get you more respect? 751387
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Post by monkey 28th September 2011, 8:47 pm

In my previous post, I wasn't saying necessarily that having big breasts makes people respect you more. It's the boobs that make you look older, therefor you probably get more respect. A lot of people think I'm 16-18. And it's because I'm so flat. And I'm super tiny. So I know having larger breasts will make me look my age. Finally.
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Post by nikitaw86 28th September 2011, 9:01 pm

know what ur saying monkey u feel sexier and more womanly and look it and that can gain u a degree of respect xx
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Post by monkey 28th September 2011, 9:30 pm

xx :)
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Post by misf1 29th September 2011, 7:15 am

Believe me looking young is a god send. I could have hugged the person who said I looked 19 the other day. I thank god at 31 I look about 26 but in my early 20's I didn't like looking young. You will enjoy it one day. Age or the age you look doesn't gain any respect either though. Just demand it.
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