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boobs too big
I keep thinking my boobs are too big. Sometimes i love them, and then other times i just think theyre massive. I think its a shame the surgeon went with a bigger size to avoid an uplift, and then i ended up needing one anyway.
Theyre also still very firm after a year and i dont think thats ever going to change now. Not hard or anything, but i feel conscious of it when i hug people for example. Ive also had people give me second glances, and i keep wondering if they look fake or something. moreso because ive lost a few pounds since i startd running. Im not top heavy or anything but does anyone else have mixed feelings about their boobs.
I cant afford to get them re-done or anything, so just offloading really. They do look a great shape and everything, and sometimes i really love the size, but sometimes i just wonder if ive made a bit of a mistake and look a bit ridiculous
Theyre also still very firm after a year and i dont think thats ever going to change now. Not hard or anything, but i feel conscious of it when i hug people for example. Ive also had people give me second glances, and i keep wondering if they look fake or something. moreso because ive lost a few pounds since i startd running. Im not top heavy or anything but does anyone else have mixed feelings about their boobs.
I cant afford to get them re-done or anything, so just offloading really. They do look a great shape and everything, and sometimes i really love the size, but sometimes i just wonder if ive made a bit of a mistake and look a bit ridiculous
abbie- BJSF Elite Member
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I think its normal to doubt things about our bodies given we question and think about it (as women) all the time. Even more so when you have been through 2 ops and spend a lot of money on it and want it right.
I'm already (and its too soon post op which I know!) questioning whether the nipple placement looks right and I doubt whether that will ever leave my head now that i have thought it !!
On size, if you don't look top heavy then it will look in proportion and normal. I'm currently a G cup but you wuoldn't think it because it balances out my hips altho they would benefit from a few inches off
I'm already (and its too soon post op which I know!) questioning whether the nipple placement looks right and I doubt whether that will ever leave my head now that i have thought it !!
On size, if you don't look top heavy then it will look in proportion and normal. I'm currently a G cup but you wuoldn't think it because it balances out my hips altho they would benefit from a few inches off
bollydolly- Active BJSF Member
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ow hun im so sorry your not happy with your boobies, if you feel they are too big some days maybe on those days wear a minimizing or sports bra to squash you in lol, im sure you look fine it might just be in your imagination, have you any piccys hun pls..what size were your before ./ after please hun x
lolly- BJSF Addict
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thanks girls. I think they probably look alright. Theyve actually made my measurements almost exactly hourglass rather than the pear shape i was before, and everyone says they suit me. I just cant help feeling a bit self conscious sometimes. Then at other times its fine.
Its DEFINITELY not true that everyone wishes theyd gone bigger though
Its DEFINITELY not true that everyone wishes theyd gone bigger though
abbie- BJSF Elite Member
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personally for me the bigger the better but im not particuarly petite, im a uk size 10 and 5ft 6. Would you mind if i took a look at your pics sweetness?? xxxx
jen86- BJSF Elite Member
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Abbie I am certain they are looking because you are a hottie!! A running toned gorgeous boobed mama! haha
I think the boob greed is different for you because you got more then you initially intended, so if you love the size and they suit you, in time you will feel more comfortable in them.
At the same time I think its good for others to hear that not everyone gets boob greed! Even surgeons may suggest a bigger size because they think you will want more later. Its hard to be certain, but we need to choose whats right for us.
I think the boob greed is different for you because you got more then you initially intended, so if you love the size and they suit you, in time you will feel more comfortable in them.
At the same time I think its good for others to hear that not everyone gets boob greed! Even surgeons may suggest a bigger size because they think you will want more later. Its hard to be certain, but we need to choose whats right for us.
kittenswithoutmittens- Active BJSF Member
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thanks girls.
Jen, i took my pics down, as my bf wasnt keen on me having them up xx
Jen, i took my pics down, as my bf wasnt keen on me having them up xx
abbie- BJSF Elite Member
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i think itll be alright in time. I just think theyre a bit much sometimes, but then in some clothes theyre fine, and naked they look great, but its quite hard to dress them sometimes, and i think cos ive got quite skinny ribs, it looks a bit weird that ive got big boobs. Feel a bit mixed cos my uncle and aunt asked me yesterday if id had them done and i always kind of liked the fact that noone had seemed to really notice befroe, altho when i was in france last time i got loads of second glances at them, cos NOONE seems to have big boobs over there. Felt quite self conscious.
abbie- BJSF Elite Member
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its really differnt to hear some one thinks there boobs are too big and im sure by writing this post youve probly helped alot of girls who felt the same.
im a bigger the better type of girl ;) i think mine look small in clothes at the min (as if im wearing my old padded bra) but im only 15 days post op and no that my sports bra squishes them! Naked there amazing lol ;)
i think we all exoect to wake up with the perfect boobs we have lots of emotinal and physical changes to go through
hope you learn to love them all the time xx
im a bigger the better type of girl ;) i think mine look small in clothes at the min (as if im wearing my old padded bra) but im only 15 days post op and no that my sports bra squishes them! Naked there amazing lol ;)
i think we all exoect to wake up with the perfect boobs we have lots of emotinal and physical changes to go through
hope you learn to love them all the time xx
barbiecon- Pregnant Buddy
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Maybe people are looking because they look great!!!!!!
NewGirl 4108- Active BJSF Member
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kittenswithoutmittens wrote:Abbie I am certain they are looking because you are a hottie!! A running toned gorgeous boobed mama! haha
i think i would fall over in surprise if that were the case, but thankyou anyway
xx
abbie- BJSF Elite Member
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Reading barbiecon's details that she was an 34a and 410cc and now is an E cup i really belive my ps didnt put 460cc inside me . Cuz i was a 34 b had 460cc implanted . So how come im only a d ;(
Isabella25- BJSF Addict
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isabella have u been measured or are you just wearing a D sports bra?
cuz im wearing a DD sports bra but in proppa bras im a E
everyones so diff iv herd givrls had 360 and go to FF/G!!
cuz im wearing a DD sports bra but in proppa bras im a E
everyones so diff iv herd givrls had 360 and go to FF/G!!
barbiecon- Pregnant Buddy
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You've got a beautifull figure in your avatar there Abbie, they seem perfect for you.
I do feel the same sometimes though, I think I could have gone smaller and still been happy, but on the other hand I wanted to look 'busty' before I had my BA, but now I don't really feel the same way, even though they didn't turn out as big as I thought they would... ahh I'm not making any sense am I? lol
I'd probably go a tiny bit smaller if I could go back in time and do it all over again, but generally am ok with what I've got and try to just think of them as 'me' now, rather than critically thinking in what ways they could be improved.
I'm still struggling to dress mine at times too. x
I do feel the same sometimes though, I think I could have gone smaller and still been happy, but on the other hand I wanted to look 'busty' before I had my BA, but now I don't really feel the same way, even though they didn't turn out as big as I thought they would... ahh I'm not making any sense am I? lol
I'd probably go a tiny bit smaller if I could go back in time and do it all over again, but generally am ok with what I've got and try to just think of them as 'me' now, rather than critically thinking in what ways they could be improved.
I'm still struggling to dress mine at times too. x
mrsm- BJSF Elite Member
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Well im wearind a 34 sports brah cup d and a cup dd both fit . Ive been messured at la zenza or what its called . They said a 36d or dd in normal brah ;( ill just wait untill im back in germany and get messured there and wait untill im at least 3 weeks post op ... But i think mine are very small ;( as soon as im home il up load a picture . Cuz from my i phone it doesnt work
Isabella25- BJSF Addict
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Hi Abbie! firstly you look gorge in your pic and very much inproportion :) can I ask what size your were pre op and what cc's you went for ? I'm getting pretty close to my surgery date and I do have the option to change my size on the day, I am very worried about being too big, what would your advice be? I'm swaying towards the smallest size option....
Theres alot of girls who want to the busty look which is great! (wish I had the courage) but would look crazy on me!!!
Theres alot of girls who want to the busty look which is great! (wish I had the courage) but would look crazy on me!!!
tinkabell23- Active BJSF Member
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Tinkabell i think that like some said that 350cc sometimes whete a g cup on some girls and on me 460 only a d cup and others with 460 thete an ff cup so i think u will have to see after . I thought mine would if been a lot bigger after . But the biggest size he offerd wad a perfect size to my body . But me personaly i didnt want the perfect size . I wanted bigger ... So i thinl the biggest size they suggest is still a very suitable size for you ...
Isabella25- BJSF Addict
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thanks isabella ! thats a very good point, thanks for the advice, I guess were all different and il probably leave it to the surgeon on the day x x
tinkabell23- Active BJSF Member
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I think i would of regret it going down to 410cc he offerd me first . Even thou its not the biggest of difference . But he offerd me 460 and i said straight away (theese are perfect) now i wish i waited because maybe he would have given me a choice of 3 and next one up he had 525 as i saw and now i wish i had them ... But hey .. Its better then before without boobs ... Always push up brahs and chicken fillets stuffed in to make em look like breast ;)
Isabella25- BJSF Addict
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Abbie, hey there hun! Gosh you're so much further down the road than I am. I am only in my 3rd week, but...I have noticed already that certain clothes play it up or down. I also think we have it in our minds that the reason people are looking at us is because of the boobs.
Kind of like when you get a new car, suddenly you notice everyone else that has the same car too and it seems like they're EVERYWHERE!
I think, being an attractive woman, you may just be getting looks because of that, or because you dress well, and probably because you look especially awesome with your great rack!
Maybe some of the looks are jealousy, not disaproval of size?
If your measurements are proportioned, I would say it's more your own thinking, we really are all very hard on ourselves. And it is indeed an emotional change too.
I really think you look fantastic!
Kind of like when you get a new car, suddenly you notice everyone else that has the same car too and it seems like they're EVERYWHERE!
I think, being an attractive woman, you may just be getting looks because of that, or because you dress well, and probably because you look especially awesome with your great rack!
Maybe some of the looks are jealousy, not disaproval of size?
If your measurements are proportioned, I would say it's more your own thinking, we really are all very hard on ourselves. And it is indeed an emotional change too.
I really think you look fantastic!
MyGirls35- Newbie BJSF Member
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aw ladies, youve made me feel much better.,
I was a very saggy empty 32b before, but it was all skin and no substance. I had 420cc, and although i measure 30E(in the new method - if i use the old + 4 or 5 on the band, i actually only measure a 34c lol - wouldnt fit me in a million years) i actually fit much better in a 30F or 30FF, but can get away with a 32dd sometimes.
Im feeling much better about them now. I guess i can hide them to a certain extent if i want to, but the problem is that because i have quite curvy hips, if i try and disguise my boobs in baggier stuff it always seems to just make me look fat.
I was a very saggy empty 32b before, but it was all skin and no substance. I had 420cc, and although i measure 30E(in the new method - if i use the old + 4 or 5 on the band, i actually only measure a 34c lol - wouldnt fit me in a million years) i actually fit much better in a 30F or 30FF, but can get away with a 32dd sometimes.
Im feeling much better about them now. I guess i can hide them to a certain extent if i want to, but the problem is that because i have quite curvy hips, if i try and disguise my boobs in baggier stuff it always seems to just make me look fat.
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