Men and their perceptions *rant alert*

by lisalisa 7th March 2011, 12:56 pm

Hey girls,

I stumbled across a thread (from an IT forum mind!) which started off with one guy was mentioning that he is very excited about his wife gettng a BA. The thread continued on with a whole bunch ]very ignorant men ranting about why women want to get a BA and change their body for other men and how that kind of thing encourages men to treat us like objects blah blah blah.

I was so enraged! I can't believe how judgemental and absolutely stupid some of them can be and how insulting some of the comments were! I swear if anything was wrong or too small in private areas I'm sure they will not be talking about it in that manner!

Anyway, that made me appreciate my other half just a little more that though he thinks I don't need a BA he will do everthing to support me, hope you all have an understanding significant other too!

by janeybird 7th March 2011, 12:58 pm

yes there ARE a lot of idiot men out there, i feel very lucky also :)

by carolyn77 7th March 2011, 1:04 pm

totally agree with you girls! how can men comment when they will never know what it is like to have boobs?

My husband is also very supportive and just wants me to be happy Give You

by lisalisa 7th March 2011, 1:11 pm

he has seen and put up the stress worries and insecurities I'm sure part of him is going along just to shut me up heheh

by Peachy34 7th March 2011, 1:38 pm

Men are such hypocrites if it wasn't for the big deal made about breasts then we probably wouldn't feel so insecure as to have a BA. It makes me laugh they are the ones who buy the magazines which are filled with mostly surgically enhanced ladies which then makes us criticise ourselves as we feel thats how we should look but when we do something about it instead of being miserable and insecure we are criticised again, you can't win. I wonder if the ones criticising women who have had a ba are so selective in their alone time lol.

by pinkbabe 7th March 2011, 3:06 pm

Men like that make me sick! I didn't have my BA for any man and never would do anything like that to please a man....why oh why can't they just accept most woman have BA's cos they want to feel better about themselves. x

by amyamyf 7th March 2011, 3:31 pm

pinkbabe wrote:I didn't have my BA for any man and never would do anything like that to please a man....

Thats exactly what I think, i'm not doing it for anyone else or so i could get more attention or anything, it's for confidence and for MYSELF!! Argh!

by candycain 7th March 2011, 4:07 pm

I am getting the BA for myself but to be honest..... If me did not make such a big deal out of the "perfect" girls in the magazine and all over the net with their perfect boobs, and everything else that can be fixed by a dr I probably would not feel this insecure. I watched this stupid plastic surgery show the other day where they put a manaquin with hardly any boobs next to one with nice round sexy boobs that reprsented implants and they asked the men which ones they like the best. 100% chose the little natural boobs!!! They lied! If that was the case magazines would be full of "natural" little boobs!!! What a joke!!!!

by kittenswithoutmittens 8th March 2011, 12:45 am

Peachy34 wrote:I wonder if the ones criticising women who have had a ba are so selective in their alone time lol.

I was just about to join the rant and saw this and had to laugh! I think I have been very lucky too, and don't have a boyfriend in this category either. He is understanding, and able to see things from someone else's point of view, well more importantly my point of view haha.

Just had a thought ...sorry if its off topic... Something I heard my mom say ages ago, and at the time it was so embarrassing, but now I laugh about it. My mom's girlfriends were chatting about boobs, and one says 'Well you know, you only need a handful" and my mom comes back, "Oh I thought it was a mouthful" :heehee:

by iampetite 8th March 2011, 3:17 am

candycain wrote: If that was the case magazines would be full of "natural" little boobs!!! What a joke!!!!

haha I totally agree with this comment!! When I ask men what they prefer. They always say natural ones no matter how small. But when there are high demands for these magazines and "videos" that are full of nice boob jobs it says other wise.

by lisalisa 8th March 2011, 11:42 am

My mom's girlfriends were chatting about boobs, and one says 'Well you know, you only need a handful" and my mom comes back, "Oh I thought it was a mouthful" :heehee:

heheheh that's so cute, I can't ever imagne hearing that from my mother hehe

by **RoxyChick** 8th March 2011, 2:42 pm

I had a similar comment from a man recently. When he found out I had fake boobs his assumption was 'Oh, so you did it to appeal to men did you?' I told him where he could stick his opinion, and that sometimes it is possible for us to have surgery without having a man/men in general in mind.

I get that some men like small boobs, but I really don't think some men understand how small some of our boobs were. If they were to see my post op pics for example, they'd be hard pressed to tell if it was a woman or a small boy in front of them.

I would never judge someone based on their body, I have my opinions obviously, who doesn't, but saying that all women who have boob jobs are this than and the other really annoys me.

by kittenswithoutmittens 8th March 2011, 11:47 pm

I have to agree, just because it is breasts it automatically means they have some input about what is right and wrong for women. Meanwhile we are thinking about so many other things, and not what men will think, some of it is aesthetics its true, some confidence, and yes our sexuality plays a part too, but it is not all about you!
I have noticed most women on here have partners already, and their love and adoration (I like to think I do at least haha) so who are we trying to attract exactly if we are in fulfilling relationships? And RoxyChick I can't believe someone said that to you! glad you told him where to put it hahaha.

by **RoxyChick** 8th March 2011, 11:53 pm

I know. What cheek!

The male ego is such a weird thing sometimes!

by kittenswithoutmittens 9th March 2011, 12:01 am

Haha yup. Takes over their whole brain, and I guess the rest is filled with thoughts of boobs hahahaha. Sorry that was uncalled for, especially after that rant haha.

But have you ever heard the expression men think of sex every minute? While for women it is food. Planning, cooking, eating, more eating haha.

by elleblondie 9th March 2011, 12:03 am

I love when men feel they actually have a right to judge and have such strong opinions on topics they will actually never understand fully. It's the same when they talk about child birth. It actually kinda makes me laugh.

by chicksville 9th March 2011, 12:05 am

If penis enlargements were a safer operation there would be a bloody waiting list.

by **RoxyChick** 9th March 2011, 12:11 am

chicksville wrote:If penis enlargements were a safer operation there would be a bloody waiting list.

Ain't that the truth! Haha!

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