Not happy with my breasts

hey ladies as some of you know i was worried about the closeness of my breasts, its a bit deciving in my avatar they are much closer. when i wear a bra the skin at the top of my breasts tents and become like symmastia and ifi push them togetherthe same happens.i think the implants were to wide for me and im just so upset and everyday im unhappy, sometime wish i hadnt had it done.

im 10 weeks post op now and not sure things are going to change, im going back to my surgeon on 23rd of december to express my concerns, not sure how to bring this up ill probly just cry, it just really gets me down ive paid all this money to end up unhappy and going through a reop to correct this is going to difficult with my lifestyle.

sorry to go on just know you girls will be here to support me x

Of course we'll be here

Try not to get too upset hunni, wait till you see your surgeon and see what he has to say. Write everything down down you want to say babe so if you forget anything you can use it as a prompt or if you are too upset and can't get your words out, you can just pass the notes to your surgeon to read for himself. If you do need a re-op hun, sure that's not great but it's not the worst that can happen sweetie even though I know it can be upsetting and if the problem can be fixed and you can finally have your dream boobs then that's a good thing isn't it...

Keep your chin up hun and stay positive. We're all here for you hun and all wish you the best

Oh hunny I am so sorry you have this problem. Don't worry about crying it's natural when your upset and also it will show the surgeon how upset you are over this issue. It's awful when things don't go as plan as we all have high expectations from our Ba. I have read a few ladies posts on here regarding re-ops and the general opinion is that are a lot easier than the actual BA and the down time is a lot less than the BA. Have you tried putting tenting, symmastia and reop in the search at the top of the page it will bring up all the post regarding these issues. I will be thinking of you on the 23 dec. Stay positive Hun the problem can be fixed

It's totally understandable to be upset hun but try not to worry too much until you see your surgeon.

So sorry you're not happy hun. It's understandable to be upset, just try not to let it get you down too much. You've got your appointment booked, so just write everything down you want to say....or even take someone in with you, and stay positive.

thanks ladies for your positive comments, i have sent my pictures to other surgeons and the majority of them have said that the implants have been placed to medial to the centre, so i now need to bring this up with my surgeon and hope that he will perform a reop for free or get some sort of refund as i will only let him perform further surgery if he has had experience in dealing with it. does anyone know anything about free reops i went with bmi so not sure how easy it is as hes like an outside surgeon who come in. x

Oh sweety. I really feel for you as we all hope to escape complications. I'm so sorry you are suffering. I'm sending the biggest heartfelt hugs to you. The girls have given you good advice already so I can't really add anymore except to say you can lean on us whenever you need to and we will support you. Xxx

Am so sorry to hear this Jane,I hope that you and your surgeon can come to some arrangement :console:

Whenever you need a kind word or a shoulder to lean on we'll be here day or night xx

hey ladies just an update for you, i went to my surgeon to express my concern and basically he said nothing can be done, although ive had opions from other surgeon who say the implants have been placed to close and there is a problem, he has never dealed with this problem therfore he is sayign there is nothign that can be done as he does not want to attept to fix it. im so devestated tha tthis has happened to me and angrey that at no point did he explain this complication of any risks with the implant size he used and then tells me today that its due to haveing quite big implants and i should just find high wired bras to try keep my breast seperate. i just wish i never had it done now i feel like a freak. i am going to get a second opinion and depending on what they say write a complaint and try to get some refund so i can have this problem fixed in america as there are people who are specilized there that can sucessfully fix it

sorry to go on just so depressed about it x

im sorry this has happened to you, but i dont think youll need to necessarily go all the way to the US to get it fixed

i am going to see dr frati on friday for a second opinion so i will let you ladies know how i get on

Hi hunnie, I hope you have a really positive meeting with Mr Frati and he can give you the reassurances that you need.
Good Luck
xx

i fully understand you...... and support ur feeling ... i just did it from 10 days .................... so i am also haveing my conserns... i and not that happy..... but ((i am telling my self ....it will get better))

Hi 21jane, how did your app go? x

hey millie, i did go for the appointment but he was running an hour late so i left i am aranging for another appointment so will let you know. im also looking for other surgeons experienced in this repair but not many seem to want to help as its quite a complex procedure x

i hope all works out for you hun xoxoxox
my husband is good at web searching and forums so if you do go to the US, or whichever i can have him search the best reviews for surgeons who have done that type of operation