How to ask to see new boobs?

by chicksville 11th August 2010, 2:08 pm

A girl at the gym has had a boob job, she is the same size as me (build not boobs) and i over heard her talikng about her boob job. She is at the gym everyday and I had noticed that she was away for about 2 to 3 weeks. I throught she was on holiday because she came back and was all brown.

I don't want to be rude and stare at them but I don't want to walk up to her and say 'I hear you've had a boob job. Can i see, and what was it like?'.

How do you approch the subject of boobs to a complete stranger and ask a very personal question?? Am not going to say show us' your tits but that what I feel like i'll be saying.

by bumblebabe 11th August 2010, 2:14 pm

i would just say, i dont mean to be rude but have overheard you had a boobjob, i am having one myself and wondered what its like and what do they feel like,
i dont like people feeling my boobs as they are just feeling my boob itself not the implant,
she may be really happy sharing her experience with you,

by bumblebabe 11th August 2010, 2:15 pm

bumblelady wrote:i dont like people feeling my boobs as they are just feeling my boob itself not the implant,
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i ment that bit about myself not what to say to her!!

by chicksville 11th August 2010, 2:23 pm

I see what you mean about people feeling your boobs, i don't like being touched, i hate it.
I wouldn't ask to touch them or even have a good look at the as I would feel a little odd. I don't want to come across as a loon!

I really like that gym and if anybody through i was a bit mental i wouldn't be able to go back.

by abbie 11th August 2010, 2:52 pm

i wouldnt ask to see or feel as i think thats a bit invasive unless youre sure someone would be ok with it.
Id probably say I couldnt help overhearing you had a boob job. Im having one too and was wondering how youve found it etc. Ask a specific question or something. It might break the ice and start a friendship.

by minxie 11th August 2010, 2:55 pm

Hmm it's a tough call isn't it... Personally I wear my heart on my sleeve and would be delighted to discuss my boob job with anyone who asked, but not everyone is like me and it wouldn't be a nice situation to be in if she turned round and said no! But if you overheard her talking about it before, then it's not as though she's keeping it a big secret.

Yeh, as bumblelady says, just tell her you're having the procedure done too and it would be good to know how she got on with hers and if she had any advice for you... chances are she'll be happy to discuss it.

I'm sure nobody will think you're a loon... not unless you just wander up to her and give them a squeeze while she's not looking! LOL

Mx

by **COOKIE** 11th August 2010, 2:58 pm

I think you'd be pushing it to ask a complete stranger if you can see her breasts! LOL

I think the suggestion to tell her you couldn't help overhearing her conversation about her recent surgery is a good one, but remember this is a sensitive issue and what she was discussing with someones she knows, she may not want to discuss with strangers so don't take offence if it's not something she wants to discuss with you hun and tread gently. xxx

by kittie 11th August 2010, 3:09 pm

personally i wouldn't mind telling someone about my boob job but not everyone is the same. i think just saying you couldn't help overhearing and asking a specific question would be a good start and see how she reacts?

by chicksville 12th August 2010, 4:03 pm

Noooo, I wouldn't come right out and ask to see, touch or feel thats asking for a slap.

But i saw her again today and I thought that I would hang back and pluck up the courage and introduce myself. While I was in the changing room again some of the other women asked her boob job and she was quite open about it which made me feel a little better but before I could walk over she started telling the ladies where she had had it done.

She had gone abroad to Spain, I think she said. She then continued to really put down the hospitals in Briton and the surgeons. One comment she made was that only girls that can't afford boob jobs have them done in Briton and they are rubbish, it's best to go abroad to have it done.

I couldn't speak to her or ask her boob job after that, I felt like punching her. I don't think anything she has to say would be worth listening to after that.

by Phoebe 12th August 2010, 6:38 pm

I wouldnt ask her if I were you, Im quite open but I wouldn't be happy if a stranger came up and asked me, I would probably tell them to mind thier own flipping business!!! She doesnt sound all that nice anyway if shes slating people for not going abroad etc

by chicksville 12th August 2010, 8:35 pm

I agree, it's hard enough to start a conversation with someone anyway let alone something that personal but after over hearing what she said I don't want to ask her.

One day i'll have my own boobs and i'll have them done in Briton by a great surgeon in a fantasic hospital.

by Peachy34 12th August 2010, 10:41 pm

Its a bit of a tricky one that perhaps she didn't realise that she was overheard I was talking to my Mum in a shop the other day about my upcoming BA and afterwards my Mum told me someone else was listening to the whole conversation and I was a bit mortified. Sometimes you think you are anonymous because you don't know the people around you and don't care if they hear what you are talking about.

I was out a couple of weeks ago and a girl was in the toilet talking openly about her boob job and people kept asking her if they could have a feel. I just put it on a par with people feeling your belly when you are pregnant they kind of think its ok but its not really. x

by Peachy34 12th August 2010, 10:44 pm

chicksville wrote:I agree, it's hard enough to start a conversation with someone anyway let alone something that personal but after over hearing what she said I don't want to ask her.

One day i'll have my own boobs and i'll have them done in Briton by a great surgeon in a fantasic hospital.

Oooooh missed that last bit let her keep her boobs to herself after that. x

by DaisyDuke 13th August 2010, 12:55 pm

You don't need to ask her when you have this great forum to ask people things...... yahoo

I would have been lost without this forum, its totally made me less stressed about my :boobstick: journey

by chicksville 13th August 2010, 1:14 pm

Oh god i totally agree! I wouldn't know to start, finding this forum has been priceless.

The fact that i'd come almost face to face with another lady who had had a BA is a 1st for me and i was and was interested to know things went for her etc..

But as i have taken more notice of her and she is very open to anyone asking (i haven't) she has said a number of things that I have taken afence at. So will not ask now, which is a shame as i like making new friends.

by Astrapuss 13th August 2010, 4:43 pm

I always thought people only had it done abroad because it was cheap!

by yumymummy 13th August 2010, 5:23 pm

Me being me i would just say... hey doll ur looking great! have u been on holiday then get chatting and say can i ask u a personal question if u dont mind,are ur boobs real they look amazing lol (compliment)

but thats just me im too forward sometimes but you never know break the ice and you's might even end up gym buddies x

by poshhugo 18th August 2010, 4:57 pm

Hi Chicksville, i was out the other night and i bumped into a friend i hadn't seen in yearsssssss she ran straight up to me and grabbed my boobs and said oh they are fab! i almost died!!!! i didn't know what to say to her, i was very embarressed!!!! stick with talking on here lol... you never know you may meet someone else soon who is happy to talk with you face to face xxx

by BoobiePrize 18th August 2010, 6:31 pm

My hairdresser didn't even have to ask! All she did was say she was considering a boob job but was sacred they'd look fake. It depends on the person, but usually once you've had a boob job you can appreciate how hard it might be for someone to ask you questions or ask to see so I'm quite approachable in that manner. I'm sure she will be too hun and understanding... we've all been there!

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