just as i was starting to like my boobs
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just as i was starting to like my boobs
the husband bursts my wee bubble, i said to him oh look at that girls avi, and hes like their not that big are they, the avi was mine
oh just to say i never normally let him look on here but i wanted to show him mine cause i was feeling proud til now
gutted in an under statement
oh just to say i never normally let him look on here but i wanted to show him mine cause i was feeling proud til now
gutted in an under statement
tinkerbell24- BJSF Elite Member
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tinkerbell24- BJSF Elite Member
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Re: just as i was starting to like my boobs
Oh Hun.....perhaps he was saying it because he thought that's what you'd like to hear as he didn't know it was your Avi.......maybe he thought you'd be gutted if he'd said 'wow, they're great' at someone else's picture!? ah, men!!xxx
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I think you're worrying to much Hun. Your husband won't be bothered by your boobs he loves you for who you are and new you before. Your boobs are so new, not dropped or fluffed yet they will change. It's hard but try not to keep worrying. They look fabulous and I'm sure in 6 months to a year they will be even more fabulous and you'll look back on this thread and think what was I on about xxx
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I agree with Jenny hun, maybe he thought it was someone else and so didn't want to say anything nice. Sometimes my OH will comment on something and then say 'was that the right thing to say?' haha
And remember you've got loads of changes to go through yet. You look like you still have lots of upper pole which will eventually move around and fill out your bottom part making your boobs bigger. :0)
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And remember you've got loads of changes to go through yet. You look like you still have lots of upper pole which will eventually move around and fill out your bottom part making your boobs bigger. :0)
xx
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Re: just as i was starting to like my boobs
I agree with Jenny. He probably knows your insecure about them ATM so will try and play other people's down. They honestly don't look small and he married you with your A cups anyway so I'm sure it wouldn't bother him. You still have changes to come so they will only get better! Although I think they look great already xx
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They will DEFO look bigger when they drop and fluff hun don't worry! Right now, they're all squashed in there, soon they'll be all filled out. Also may have been that he didn't want to say that he thought another girls boobies were big in front of you Like Jenny said.
Men are truly strange.
Men are truly strange.
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I gotta be honest tink I think you have been over sensitive and jumped the gun if he thought they were another girls then he's not gonna say they're big it was putting him on the spot by asking if he liked them without telling him it was yours. If it makes you feel any better I asked my other half what he thought of my avi but didn't realise I'd scrolled down to mrsballs pic when passed it over he was like wow yeah that's awesome should of seen his face when I scrolled up and said not that one angrily ha ha xxx
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god i feel like such a moany pants not sure how u wall put up with me lol.
your all right i am sensitive and overly sensitive now. but he would comment on any boobs i show him gd or bad so he said what he thought for sure.
right no more negative posts from me. i promise!!! but thanks for replying ur sll fab xx
your all right i am sensitive and overly sensitive now. but he would comment on any boobs i show him gd or bad so he said what he thought for sure.
right no more negative posts from me. i promise!!! but thanks for replying ur sll fab xx
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scatty mrs balls are fab but eh lol. but im loving ur avi just now. they look great in that bra xx
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Yours will look great too and it's not moaning I was just looking at it from your husbands point of view for yrs they have been scared of liking boobs lol now I'm sure they're still looking for the right answer ha ha I hope I made you feel better and not made you feel like a moaner
I'm rubbish sometimes but cause I'm so honest it can come across as harsh the way I word things lol but I really do think he was trying to say the right thing xx
I'm rubbish sometimes but cause I'm so honest it can come across as harsh the way I word things lol but I really do think he was trying to say the right thing xx
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nope no one on hear is ever harsh but sometimes bring u back to earth by saying it like it is!! which i like. i feel bad he knows he said the wrong thing lol so think al drop it but still feel bleugh about my boobs again ha!!
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I hated my boobs tink I really did especially compared to all the great ones on here but give them time I'm nearly two months now and it's only recently I loved them. You will need a while longer to fluff just need to wait a while ill put my neck on the line and promise a day will come when you stick a bra on and suddenly realise they are great just give it time Hun xxxxxx
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its all ur faults u with all ur nice boobies lol. think al hibernate lol wake up in six month xx
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Lol scatty! yours do look fab though Hun and so donyoursbtink, I agree with the other girls he's not going to 'big up' a pic of someone's boobs knowing how your feeling at the moment xx
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Lmao mrsball he looked like one of those old fashioned cartoon wolves when there eyes and tongues pop out when he saw yours ha ha it was soooo funny I couldn't be mad he gave me a hug after so you defo have a couple of admirers in this house hee hee xxx
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i know i know im just up and down with emotions al be fine xx
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It is hard tink as much as this site helps me it hindered me comparing myself CONSTANTLY to all the beautiful avi's and people kept telling me give it time, I thought yeah right I'm too small everyone's just trying to make me feel better but they are right xxxx
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Aww thanks scatty and it's true don't compare yourself to other Avis, Hun, I sometimes think to myself I've had 800cc and have gone up to a size some ladies get with 400s! But I've had what I could have and what's fitted my body and worked for me and what I had to start ( which was nothing) we are all made different and have had implants to suit our individual bodies x
Tink once you get in wired bras it'll make all the diffrence ! They look gorgeous Hun x
Tink once you get in wired bras it'll make all the diffrence ! They look gorgeous Hun x
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I don't think anyone can prepare you for the range of emotions you can experience while healing, the worry, the stress and the emotional rollercoaster, it's is a very long and very emotional journey and really can take it out of you psychologically. You'll get there hun, it's just very early days and adapting to your new boobs is hard sometimes. It's a lot of money and a big change. You'll get there though hun and you wont always feel like this.
Re: just as i was starting to like my boobs
Aw Tink, I had a similar thing happen!
I showed my b/f a picture of my boobs from my pic trail and said "What do you think to her boobs" and he replied "Dunno, a bit gappy" I was like OMG they are mine! Then he fell out with me cos he was like why did you trick me, lol!
I hate the fact I'm gappy and he said it....he then followed it up by saying I look better naked, lol x
I showed my b/f a picture of my boobs from my pic trail and said "What do you think to her boobs" and he replied "Dunno, a bit gappy" I was like OMG they are mine! Then he fell out with me cos he was like why did you trick me, lol!
I hate the fact I'm gappy and he said it....he then followed it up by saying I look better naked, lol x
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Ill tell you a great bra zebra I have the same problem I couldn't get a cleavage in ANYTHING even wonderbra and Freya deco I have a gap
In debanhams I got an ultimate bra slightly padded and that gives me a cleavage then I ordered an ultimo dreamwire bra and OMG I have a proper total cleavage in it the highest cup available is DD and in all honesty I probably could of done with an E but I fit comfy in it I loved it so much I ordered another the same day it came my OH was even amazed!! Xx
In debanhams I got an ultimate bra slightly padded and that gives me a cleavage then I ordered an ultimo dreamwire bra and OMG I have a proper total cleavage in it the highest cup available is DD and in all honesty I probably could of done with an E but I fit comfy in it I loved it so much I ordered another the same day it came my OH was even amazed!! Xx
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men eh zebra lol. im gappy too xx
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I have two ultimate bras from debs that offer 2xboost which I love but I feel it defeats the object of the BA lol But I love them, look fab until I take them off!
Not sure if I tried that on in debs or not, rings a bell!! I have tried most on in there lol but I'll deffo keep an eye out for that one, cheers chick :) x
Not sure if I tried that on in debs or not, rings a bell!! I have tried most on in there lol but I'll deffo keep an eye out for that one, cheers chick :) x
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tinkerbell24 wrote:men eh zebra lol. im gappy too xx
Yeah, they're crap aren't they lol x
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