The craziness of wanting boobs! highs and Lows
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The craziness of wanting boobs! highs and Lows
is it just me or does the want and need for a bigger chest drive you mad....
I finally booked my surgery day and I've been all over the place since... One minute I'm so excited and I can't wish my op day to come quicker and the next I'm worrying and wondering do I really need it.. What's worse I'm more worried about them coming out wonky or too tight etc over the health issues. I've wanted this surgery since I was 14 and I'm now 27 nearly 28..So I'm def having it. Lol
Plus I told a good friend and he wasn't even slightly supportive. I understand he doesn't agree with it etc but it would have been nice to have at least smiled and nodded.So annoying....plus I'm ranting.. Sorry!!! Lol
This forum has been the best form of support I could have asked for.. Informative and always and honest opinion. Thanks girls... Its nice to finally have girls who understand and don't bitch etc.
I finally booked my surgery day and I've been all over the place since... One minute I'm so excited and I can't wish my op day to come quicker and the next I'm worrying and wondering do I really need it.. What's worse I'm more worried about them coming out wonky or too tight etc over the health issues. I've wanted this surgery since I was 14 and I'm now 27 nearly 28..So I'm def having it. Lol
Plus I told a good friend and he wasn't even slightly supportive. I understand he doesn't agree with it etc but it would have been nice to have at least smiled and nodded.So annoying....plus I'm ranting.. Sorry!!! Lol
This forum has been the best form of support I could have asked for.. Informative and always and honest opinion. Thanks girls... Its nice to finally have girls who understand and don't bitch etc.
kenzie1985- BJSF Addict
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Re: The craziness of wanting boobs! highs and Lows
Haha God love you babe i feel like this all the time but im deffo gona get mine done. Only my hubby knows im getting it done and at my consuktation he said it made him feel physically sick...not quite the reaction i was looking for =P but he has started to come round x
Re: The craziness of wanting boobs! highs and Lows
You may have seen a phrase around the forum called 'the booby roller coaster' and that's exactly what having a BA is, from consultations all way through to the end of your recovery there's ups and downs all the way!
Its normal Kenzie and I'm so happy for you that you're soon able to fulfill your dream - BOOBIES xx
Its normal Kenzie and I'm so happy for you that you're soon able to fulfill your dream - BOOBIES xx
Re: The craziness of wanting boobs! highs and Lows
I had the booby demon for over a year before I got them done constantly reading and re reading posts on here without posting myself, looking at everything boob related it took over my life, also had a guilt feeling about not being able to look after babies, then worrying about messing their routine up as we stayed at my mums for a week because OH works. Ups and downs are normal, but I can honestly say I've not had one down day since having them done, no boobie blues or regrets. I'm so glad I did it and I feel like a different person.
Congrats on booking and good luck xx
Congrats on booking and good luck xx
mais04- BJSF Elite Member
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Re: The craziness of wanting boobs! highs and Lows
I know it will be so worth it!! I work fairly close to Victoria's Secrets and I cannot wait to go buy a normal bra with no gel or loads of padding/foam.woo hoo!!
Looking at all the avatars of post ops just fill me with confidence!!
Looking at all the avatars of post ops just fill me with confidence!!
kenzie1985- BJSF Addict
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It's the best decision I ever made and the ups and downs leading to it are natural I became obsessed with boobs that's all I looked at it even ended up with me getting angry that the confused cartoon advert woman had boobs and I didn't lol !! You will feel every emotion going but when it's done you will ask yourself why you didn't do it sooner lol xx
Scatty247- BJSF Addict
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I feel your pain Kenzie!!
It kind of takes over your life doesnt it? My eldest daughter old me earlier that her sister is back at school tmoro and I was sure it was Tuesday (when Im having my op) anyway, I checked and she's right I can't even think straight at the moment!
And unsupportive people are just the worst! You want everyone to be happy for you and unfortunately, they're not are they. My boyfriend is in Afghan and told me the other wk he didnt want me to wait for him - it came totally out of the blue and I'm convinced it's because Im getting a boob job as he doesnt want me to get one. He messaged me yesterday saying I have nice boobs and I dont need to change them People should understand that we are doing it for ourselves and nobody else!!!
Oh me too, I cant wait to thow my padded bra's and chicken fillets in the bin, haha!
x
It kind of takes over your life doesnt it? My eldest daughter old me earlier that her sister is back at school tmoro and I was sure it was Tuesday (when Im having my op) anyway, I checked and she's right I can't even think straight at the moment!
And unsupportive people are just the worst! You want everyone to be happy for you and unfortunately, they're not are they. My boyfriend is in Afghan and told me the other wk he didnt want me to wait for him - it came totally out of the blue and I'm convinced it's because Im getting a boob job as he doesnt want me to get one. He messaged me yesterday saying I have nice boobs and I dont need to change them People should understand that we are doing it for ourselves and nobody else!!!
Oh me too, I cant wait to thow my padded bra's and chicken fillets in the bin, haha!
x
Gem76- Active BJSF Member
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Re: The craziness of wanting boobs! highs and Lows
It becomes an obsession! But a really good exciting one! It's definitely a roller coaster of emotions but you're in the right place here, we all can relate to those feelings and this site is a fantastic source of information too. x
mrsm- BJSF Elite Member
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This boobie roller coaster is driving me insaneee like i wanted it too for years and now its in just under 3 week im questioning every thing. Gem76
My fella hates that im having it hes saying u just wanna look a slag and bla bla bla, funny coz ive had two kids and they look dredful he just won't admit it. But we do this for our selves. Every one has there own reasons for having them done i cant wait to be on over side done and dusted no pain. Also for this
Roller coaster taking over my mind and world to stop ha ha. Xx
My fella hates that im having it hes saying u just wanna look a slag and bla bla bla, funny coz ive had two kids and they look dredful he just won't admit it. But we do this for our selves. Every one has there own reasons for having them done i cant wait to be on over side done and dusted no pain. Also for this
Roller coaster taking over my mind and world to stop ha ha. Xx
katielou2111- BJSF Addict
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kenzie1985 wrote:Looking at all the avatars of post ops just fill me with confidence!!
And that's what I'd stay focused on lovely - the final outcome! Knowing that soon your boobs are going to look just as good as everybody else's here
Its such an exciting time lovely, so never lose sight of your reasons for doing this and focus on the result... This is a 'good' thing you're doing for yourself babe, so just enjoy it. Xx
Re: The craziness of wanting boobs! highs and Lows
Ppl always think either
A, Your partner must want you to have it
B, If not, he shouldn't let you have it done
Or C, Must be attention seeking
BA are so common you would think it would be accepted.
I'm doing it for me and only me. I'm so excited !! I'm celebrating my birthday next Monday and everyone s asking what I want. All I want is money towards my BA!! Can't say it tho!!! :-(
You guys have been amazing and I know I'll be asking many more questions !
A, Your partner must want you to have it
B, If not, he shouldn't let you have it done
Or C, Must be attention seeking
BA are so common you would think it would be accepted.
I'm doing it for me and only me. I'm so excited !! I'm celebrating my birthday next Monday and everyone s asking what I want. All I want is money towards my BA!! Can't say it tho!!! :-(
You guys have been amazing and I know I'll be asking many more questions !
kenzie1985- BJSF Addict
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Re: The craziness of wanting boobs! highs and Lows
Just ask for money, don't have to say what for ;] x
Re: The craziness of wanting boobs! highs and Lows
I'll be asking for money!! It will go towards sports bras etc.
kenzie1985- BJSF Addict
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Re: The craziness of wanting boobs! highs and Lows
Deffo, and have a look into those V pillow thingymabobs...they're supposed to be really comfy for when you sleep upright for a bit x
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