Grr wanting a moan!

I know I'm getting impatient but I just wanted a moan about my boobs Even though they have softened a little and dropped a little I still feel they have a long way to go towards the way I want them to look and feel and it scares me they are going to feel how they do now, forever :/
I'm A single girl and I don't want to sound crude but I'm scared of sleeping with someone in case they feel my boobs as they are still quite firm and I don't know what to do about it I have a holiday next month hahahaha!!!
X

Is the firmness your only concern Emma?

Even after as long as 3 months Emma, your boobs will continue to go on healing for up to a year post-op lovely, but I'm sure you already know that....

My boobs didn't start to really soften and gain natural movement until about 6 months post-op Emma, I remember running down the stairs feeling my very first jiggle and I was ecstatic! I must have run up and down the stairs after that for an hour, just lovin' the jiggle haha.

The full softness again I felt around the 6 month marker and by 12 months they were so soft that unless you squeeze my boobs really hard to feel the implant you wouldn't know.

Dont be worried about sleeping with someone Emma. Let me tell you something Emma, there's NOTHING more sexy than a confident woman, it doesn't matter what shape you are, I'm telling you confidence is like a magic mist that just wraps men up and brings 'em to you... If you love you love your body and find it attractive, then there won't me a man who could resist that!

So just learn to love them hun. They're a part of you now and it's said there is no better compliment for a woman than that of another woman and I'm as honest as can be sweetness and looking at your avatar, you have one of the nicest results I've seen Enjoy 'em! Love 'em! and others will too...

Just to add that if you haven't already had your concerns noted by your surgeon, then it may be an idea to make an appointment, go through all of this with your surgeon, get everything written in your notes now hun, so that if you're still unhappy by your 6 month assessment, this will have already been logged by you. xx

cookie wrote:

Dont be worried about sleeping with someone Emma. Let me tell you something Emma, there's NOTHING more sexy than a confident woman, it doesn't matter what shape you are, I'm telling you confidence is like a magic mist that just wraps men up and brings 'em to you... If you love you love your body and find it attractive, then there won't me a man who could resist that!

So just learn to love them hun. They're a part of you now and it's said there is no better compliment for a woman than that of another woman and I'm as honest as can be sweetness and looking at your avatar, you have one of the nicest results I've seen Enjoy 'em! Love 'em! and others will too...

Aww I love that xx

Thank you so much cookie! You really are so fantastic! And thank you for the compliment At the moment it is the feel. I do know they can take up to a year to fully heal and settle but no one knows what they look like in the dark do they haha!! I feel my nipples are pointing a little high at the moment but I think it's because they haven't dropped completely. And I'm worried about the feel because I do not know what they will feel like as I haven't felt a paid of augmented breasts before! I know I have chosen one of the softest of the "gummy bear" implants but right now they don't feel all too soft! I can move them and squeeze them together but you can feel the implant sitting there inside me like a little ball of hardness (slight exaggeration) they are pokeable but still not very "soft" to me. I just wish you could have a grope and give me some words of wisdome haha!!!
You know what i think youre right abput the confidence thing i do love my new boobs dispite this and i thonk they should too haha!! I think I'm just going to be a little more patient and see what they are like in a few months and if I'm not happy speak with my surgeon then. Thanks again cookie. Xx

Unders seriously take forever to soften, mine definitely took over 6 months last time round! More like a year until they were properly squidgy! The waiting game has started again with my new additions now. It's just a case of being very patient unfortunately!

Cookie has given you some great advice already, I just wanted to say you look absolutely amazing I don't think any man would be there squishing them thinking "wow these beautiful boobs just don't squid he enough" so you really shouldn't worry hun.

Focus on the positives and try not to let the things you don't like cloud your judgement and be the only thing you focus on. They'll get there in the end, but you can still enjoy them for what they are now. X

thank you Alice :) I have already told you i think you have a crackin' pair haha. I think i am just super paranoid but i think i would have been thinking 'theyre too small' before i had them done, I cant win!! haha

I guess the waiting same sure have began haha... lets see how long they take

xxx

We are all the same babe, wanting results NOW! Just give them time babe, and any man who would moan about firm boobies needs shot! haha!

I know what you mean about the impatience. Mine are healing really well, but I know they're not there yet, they need to soften some more, and haven't finished dropping yet.

Your boobs are beautiful, I just love them. From the pictures I've seen they're a beautiful shape and size, they're just fantastic!

Cookie's right about the confidence, great advice xxx

I can honestly say hunni that after seeing your pics i had decided to go with the unders as before i was worried about them.

I was made up that i was going with the sam esurgeon as you as i thought his work was FAB!!! :) xxx

Im sure they will squish down very soon, then hopefully it we be me maoning about mine needing too!! :)

kxx