listen to the girls reasurance newbies

hi all
I am 11 days into ba and have been very stressed with the ba. All we have to go through with emotions is difficult I must think for most off us.
Ifs ,,whys,, buts,, can I ,, will I ,,I have had all this going on .As soon as I came on here and ask for advice I was given it and support and I listened to every word that was said.  Advice like, how long will I be in pain. Is this normal is that normal. etc etc. The one thing that most people question is when does pain start going. Its all the unknown for a lot off newbies.
The girls on here no what they talking about when answering your questions and the support they give and encouragement is superb least to say. Its very scary (well was for me) when I came home wondering if things were normal with the twins. (lol) I was advised and supported off the girls from here. So if you have any issues at all big or small they are all here to help. I can also a little as only 11 days in so not as much as some off these girls but as times goes on I will be able to offer more. So girls thank you for helping me with your comments I have been praising you all to friends and family saying I don't no what I would off been like if I hadn't had reassurance off you all .Everything you said was right  and helpful.
 so thank you all again ..xxxxxxxxxxxx            

A little update from myself anyway. I feel a lot better in myself and have been out a few times to friends and have no pain at all  apart from strange feelings (which I no now are normal) and feeling a lot better in myself now. I am going to see consultant Monday so hopefully can drive and he may let me start doing light household stuff. I am pleased with results and hopefully every other day passing I get even better.
best wishes all   lots off love
joanne  xxxxxxxxx

Well said Joanne and glad you're feeling almost there xx

Lovely words Joanne. I love this forum and I'm glad that someone mentioned it to me on another site. The best thing I ever did was to start chatting on here. Made great friends here too xx
Happy healing

Glad your getting back to normal x

Lovely post Hun, and glad you're feeling a lot
 better. X

I was told about this site and it's fab....happy healing x

Thanks again all for kind words
I have been on it 5 times a day since op lol ... on off on off.. hubby is a prison officer so does long shifts. I have been though this op alone apart from visitors so it's played a big part in my recovery this site .xx

Aw that's a lovely post..glad ur doing better xx

Aaas Hun, I feel the same, lovely post. All the aqurlching and crackling would be freaking me out if I hadn't read it on here xxx

Glad everything is going well with your recovery, lovely post ! XXX

Aww , that's nice . I found everyone so helpful too