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Post by scarybiscuits on 22nd May 2010, 8:53 am

i really dont know what to do, i am over 6 months post op now and i hate my boobs
before i had my op they were very flat on top of the breast above the nipple and was told on the day of my op i have slightly tuberous breast
now 6 months post op when i get up in the morning or when not wearing a bra the right breast looks quite like it did before the op, its beginning to go bk to the shape it was before my op and now i hate them
when i first had my BA i wouldnt be too bothered about wearing a bra but now i cnt bear to be without one because of the shape :(
what do i do i think my surgeon may think im mad and if i dont have the cash for re-op even if thats what he suggested :(

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Re: help i hate me boobs :(

Post by Starz-10 on 22nd May 2010, 9:04 am

Sorry to hear you are feeling like this . Maybe you should see your surgeon just to see what he says? If it is just on your right boob then maybe it's best to get it checked anyway to make sure everything is ok. x

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Post by stiltoncheese on 22nd May 2010, 9:06 am

Oh hon, that sounds pretty stressful for you. Starz is right though, you should see your surgeon for his opinion, even if he says nothing he can do. Would put your mind at rest xx

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Post by scarybiscuits on 22nd May 2010, 9:12 am

when i went for my 3 month check up i think it was i mentioned to him that the right one felt lower and after he checked them he sed they were fine and that it was how the fluid and fatty tissue sat and that on my left breastthis was on the top
one of the main reasons that i had the op as because they were flat on the top
they look fine when i have a bra on but without they take the same shape as before
i feel that i have spent 5k on boobs that i am not happy with
i cant go bra less as i dont have the support that makes me feel fuller, hating this weather as wanna go braless but cant
had anyone els had this trouble?

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Post by alfie on 22nd May 2010, 9:14 am

I really feel for you hun make an appointment to see your ps, he won't think you're mad, and like stilton has just said it will put your mind at rest. xx

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Post by natalia on 22nd May 2010, 9:14 am

i think u need to tell your surgeon this as everyone has ba to get fuller ontop u want them pert so u dont have to wear bra and he needs to listen to u as its alot of money to pay and b unhappy
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Post by scarybiscuits on 22nd May 2010, 9:39 am

thanks guys. i think i am one of the ones that have piad the most for my BA and i am not happy
my ps did say tho that any re-op would only be covered my cost if it was for a medical reason :(
i have emailed him and hope to hear soon x

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Post by pinkbabe on 22nd May 2010, 10:30 am

Sorry to hear your feeling this way hun. I agree with the others though go see your PS and get his opinion maybe there is something that can be done but if you dont ask you'll never know. xx

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Post by Tonic28 on 22nd May 2010, 10:33 am

Ahhh u sound really unhappy...I hope things get sorted for you. If ur not happy and upset u definately need to return and have a chat with your PS...good luck xxxx

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Post by misf1 on 22nd May 2010, 10:36 am

Aw hun, I agree with the girls if you are not happy you should go back and see your ps

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Post by cookie on 22nd May 2010, 8:57 pm

Scary biscuits you really must make an appointment to go back to see your surgeon and the sooner the better babe. If you don't feel you can 'tell' your surgeon the problem and how it's making you feel then write everything down hun and give it to him to read through as sometimes surgeons can be a little intimidating and you either can't get the words out or they don't let you finish.

You really shouldn't be so unhappy hun and should have what you requested in your consultation which is 'upper fullness'

Good luck sweetheart. xxx

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Re: help i hate me boobs :(

Post by Grace on 23rd May 2010, 6:55 am

Let us know how you get on Lovely, sorry to hear you are feeling bad about them
Lots of love
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Post by *Sally* on 23rd May 2010, 10:48 am

Totally agree with Cookie, you NEED to speak to your surgeon and let him know exactly how you are feeling. I think writing it down is a really good idea. let us know how you get on honey xxx

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Re: help i hate me boobs :(

Post by scarybiscuits on 24th May 2010, 4:30 am

hey all thanks for ur thoughts
i have emailed my surgeon as follows
Mr *****
My name is *************** and i had 300cc over breast aug on 6th november 2009
I am writing to you as I am not happy with my surgery.
I decided on having this op as I wasnt very full on the top of the breast and wanted to feel fuller here.
After
the op i did feel fuller as my breasts were still hard, however as time
has past i now feel that my right breast in particular has become very
flat at the top and is beginning to take the shape that my breast were
before the operation and it is getting me down.
with this lovely
weather I would like to go bra less however I cannot do this as i feel
that i dont have the support. Like I have already said the main reason
for this op is to feel fuller on the top of the breast and I feel that
this has not happened on the right breast in particular.
I look forward to hearing your reply
kirsty frogley

i sent this on the 22nd and now just waiting a reply but i doubt ill even get one :( x

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Post by natalia on 24th May 2010, 4:51 am

that sounds good i would ring up hun if u dont hear cant believe after u paid all that money they are gonna ignore u its disgusting if they dont sort it out for u
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Re: help i hate me boobs :(

Post by scarybiscuits on 24th May 2010, 5:24 am

another thing is that i dont have a crease line under my boobs either
what wrong with me why cant i have perfect boobs after my BA :( x

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Post by cookie on 24th May 2010, 5:34 am

Do you have to pay for further consultations with Spire hun? If they're free, I'd call the clinic and make an appointment to see your surgeon, you may well hear from your surgeon in the meantime, but if you don't you'll at least have appointment to discuss your concerns hun. xx

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Re: help i hate me boobs :(

Post by Tonic28 on 24th May 2010, 6:05 am

I would make a post op appointment to meet with a PS at the hospital you had it done at....don't wait for a reply....if ur not happy then you need to make an appointment and also take someone with you for moral support xxxxx

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Post by Funkygirl on 24th May 2010, 7:38 am

Sorry your feeling down about things hun, but well done for writing the letter and sending it to your ps, these things are never easy Now that your ps has had time to digest the letter, I would go and see him to discuss things in person. It's always best to have a chat face to face to air your concerns, you have paid good money hun.

Good luck and let us know how it goes hun x x

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