Hubby a bit standoffish
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Charlii
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Hubby a bit standoffish
is it just my hubby that's like this. Pre ba he was always groping me I hated it because I hated my boobs, but now it's like he doesn't want to touch them and I really want him to be how he was before. He knows I don't have any discomfort or pain so I'm just paranoid now that he doesn't like them or they don't feel "real". Xx
mrskelly- BJSF Addict
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Re: Hubby a bit standoffish
They'll never admit it, but he's probably worried he'll hurt you. You can tell him they're fine for a fumble all you like, but he won't grab hold for fear of hurting you or damaging the implant. Take his hand and show him what he can and can't do, and how hard he can squeeze. It'll take time to go back to normal but it's a start
Charlii- Moderator
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I'm the opposite - mine is groping at me more than he used to - just goes to show he hated them before!! He also said he's worried I'll leave him now I'm 'sexy'. So clearly I was sexless before!! I don't know whether to feel offended or happy!!
I bet your husband is worried about damaging them like Charlii said - once he gets going with them he'll be loving it!
Mine feel odd when my husband touches them anyway - just numb and like they aren't my own! X
I bet your husband is worried about damaging them like Charlii said - once he gets going with them he'll be loving it!
Mine feel odd when my husband touches them anyway - just numb and like they aren't my own! X
Lucy106- BJSF Addict
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Thanks ladies, I've had a chat with him now as it was getting me a bit down. You were right he was scared he'd hurt me. Bless him. Mine still do feel odd also and have no feeling in my nipples but I've just longed so much for him to touch and for me not to cringe. Xx
mrskelly- BJSF Addict
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Mine was like this at 1st then now I've only to walk past him and he's like :: I love your tits:: xx
Carrierowland- BJSF Addict
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Yep mine was same.now he comes up to me for a cuddle, but hands are always out first to cop a feel. He calls them his stress balls
He will get used to them. Just takes time.
It's so quiet on here lately isn't it. I come on daily but not much going on at the minute I guess!
Hope yor all well anyway
He will get used to them. Just takes time.
It's so quiet on here lately isn't it. I come on daily but not much going on at the minute I guess!
Hope yor all well anyway
Twinky- BJSF Elite Member
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Yes its really quiet Twinky - shame - I come on every day too and am always looking for action!! Hopefully we'll get some newbies along soon we can get excited for. I guess it maybe just isn't the boobie season? Maybe people start thinking about it more in Spring / Summer!! I know my final straw was my holiday last August. I'm looking forward to actually getting served at the beach bar this year - no luck before - nasty greek men!! xx
Lucy106- BJSF Addict
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It is so quiet and aust last year was when I thought enough was enough whilst on holiday only it was the Egyptians xx
mrskelly- BJSF Addict
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Re: Hubby a bit standoffish
Glad you've had a chat with him about it! Mine was exactly the same. Now he'll grab at them any chance he gets!
Sorry I've been away so much. Its launch season at work, and Im so exhausted from the commute, Its mostly home, eat, bed!
Sorry I've been away so much. Its launch season at work, and Im so exhausted from the commute, Its mostly home, eat, bed!
Charlii- Moderator
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Re: Hubby a bit standoffish
Men are so typical. Bless their socks. Mine is worse thàn before (and he was alway grabbing a feel before hand), he says he wants his money's worth lol. Was him that noticed an increase in squishiness few weeks back.
Agree, think us boob greedy peeps must get through summer feeling rubbish about our boobs so autumn and winter is take action time. X
Agree, think us boob greedy peeps must get through summer feeling rubbish about our boobs so autumn and winter is take action time. X
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