Breast Buddies
Hi and welcome to Breast Buddies Forum!

As a guest you're more than welcome to browse the forums and get information about breast augmentation surgery. We feel that everyone deserves to look and feel their best, and all are welcome to have a look around! However some forums are hidden and some aren't available to guests, so you're more than welcome to join up and join in to fully take advantage of all the site has to offer.

Why Register?

• Keep up to date with the latest surgery news
• Chat to friendly girls who've been through the op
• See pictures of real life patients
• Get advice on implant types, sizes, shapes, placements and more
• Ask our resident BAAPS surgeons
• Get your own boob job diary and calendar events
• Get your countdown ticker to your special day
• Access members-only forums

Plus more... much more!

Use the buttons below to register or log in.

Thanks for visiting and talk you soon!

Hubby a bit standoffish

View previous topic View next topic Go down

Hubby a bit standoffish

Post by mrskelly on 14th March 2016, 6:08 pm

is it just my hubby that's like this. Pre ba he was always groping me I hated it because I hated my boobs, but now it's like he doesn't want to touch them and I really want him to be how he was before. He knows I don't have any discomfort or pain so I'm just paranoid now that he doesn't like them or they don't feel "real". Xx
avatar
mrskelly
BJSF Addict

Number of posts : 813
Location : leeds

Back to top Go down

Re: Hubby a bit standoffish

Post by Charlii on 14th March 2016, 7:50 pm

They'll never admit it, but he's probably worried he'll hurt you. You can tell him they're fine for a fumble all you like, but he won't grab hold for fear of hurting you or damaging the implant. Take his hand and show him what he can and can't do, and how hard he can squeeze. It'll take time to go back to normal but it's a start

_______________________________________________






Pre Op 32AA
5'8"
9st10ish
10/12
Post Op 32DD/E
avatar
Charlii
Moderator
Moderator

Number of posts : 5339
Location : London

Back to top Go down

Re: Hubby a bit standoffish

Post by Lucy106 on 14th March 2016, 9:48 pm

I'm the opposite - mine is groping at me more than he used to - just goes to show he hated them before!! He also said he's worried I'll leave him now I'm 'sexy'. So clearly I was sexless before!! I don't know whether to feel offended or happy!!

I bet your husband is worried about damaging them like Charlii said - once he gets going with them he'll be loving it!

Mine feel odd when my husband touches them anyway - just numb and like they aren't my own! X
avatar
Lucy106
BJSF Addict

Number of posts : 995
Location : Sussex

Back to top Go down

Re: Hubby a bit standoffish

Post by mrskelly on 14th March 2016, 9:54 pm

Thanks ladies, I've had a chat with him now as it was getting me a bit down. You were right he was scared he'd hurt me. Bless him. Mine still do feel odd also and have no feeling in my nipples but I've just longed so much for him to touch and for me not to cringe. Xx
avatar
mrskelly
BJSF Addict

Number of posts : 813
Location : leeds

Back to top Go down

Re: Hubby a bit standoffish

Post by Carrierowland on 15th March 2016, 2:19 pm

Mine was like this at 1st then now I've only to walk past him and he's like :: I love your tits:: xx
avatar
Carrierowland
BJSF Addict

Number of posts : 844
Location : Essex England

Back to top Go down

Re: Hubby a bit standoffish

Post by Twinky on 15th March 2016, 4:36 pm

Yep mine was same.now he comes up to me for a cuddle, but hands are always out first to cop a feel. He calls them his stress balls Hysterical

He will get used to them. Just takes time.

It's so quiet on here lately isn't it. I come on daily but not much going on at the minute I guess!

Hope yor all well anyway :ok:
avatar
Twinky
BJSF Elite Member

Number of posts : 1101
Location : Yorkshire

Back to top Go down

Re: Hubby a bit standoffish

Post by Lucy106 on 15th March 2016, 5:03 pm

Yes its really quiet Twinky - shame - I come on every day too and am always looking for action!!  Hopefully we'll get some newbies along soon we can get excited for.  I guess it maybe just isn't the boobie season?  Maybe people start thinking about it more in Spring / Summer!!  I know my final straw was my holiday last August.  I'm looking forward to actually getting served at the beach bar this year - no luck before - nasty greek men!! xx
avatar
Lucy106
BJSF Addict

Number of posts : 995
Location : Sussex

Back to top Go down

Re: Hubby a bit standoffish

Post by mrskelly on 15th March 2016, 6:17 pm

It is so quiet and aust last year was when I thought enough was enough whilst on holiday only it was the Egyptians xx
avatar
mrskelly
BJSF Addict

Number of posts : 813
Location : leeds

Back to top Go down

Re: Hubby a bit standoffish

Post by Charlii on 15th March 2016, 9:00 pm

Glad you've had a chat with him about it! Mine was exactly the same. Now he'll grab at them any chance he gets!

Sorry I've been away so much. Its launch season at work, and Im so exhausted from the commute, Its mostly home, eat, bed!

_______________________________________________






Pre Op 32AA
5'8"
9st10ish
10/12
Post Op 32DD/E
avatar
Charlii
Moderator
Moderator

Number of posts : 5339
Location : London

Back to top Go down

Re: Hubby a bit standoffish

Post by BkozK on 17th March 2016, 10:28 am

Men are so typical. Bless their socks. Mine is worse thàn before (and he was alway grabbing a feel before hand), he says he wants his money's worth lol. Was him that noticed an increase in squishiness few weeks back.

Agree, think us boob greedy peeps must get through summer feeling rubbish about our boobs so autumn and winter is take action time. X

avatar
BkozK
BJSF Elite Member

Number of posts : 1236
Location : Essex, UK

Back to top Go down

Re: Hubby a bit standoffish

Post by Sponsored content


Sponsored content


Back to top Go down

View previous topic View next topic Back to top

- Similar topics

 
Permissions in this forum:
You cannot reply to topics in this forum