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Post by tashab1 on 24th September 2013, 12:28 pm

Im still hanging in there girls! started this whole process over 2 years ago and still not finished off :( I finished having my expanders expanded in February, saw the surgeon in april to get me back on the list to have them changed, was told then it would be the end of summer ish! so I've called to ask how much longer its going to be, they said it could be in the new year! im sooo fed up of waiting around, im get lots of pain from my expanders (purely because hes put ones in too small and they've been overstretched and its like you've given up breastfeeding) I just want this over with and my life back now!! plus had some bad news recently about my uncle (terminal cancer) so in desperate need of some hugs xxx
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Post by Gleaming on 24th September 2013, 12:31 pm

Ahh poor you :( Can't say I know too much about expanders, but I know how frustrating it can be when you have your heart set on something and you're left waiting for an update. Big hugs xxx
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Post by tashab1 on 24th September 2013, 12:37 pm

lol basically the expanders is like a balloon, they have little ports which they inject salt water into to increase the boob size, because I had a 2 size difference, because I have a twisted skeleton meaning my right side had no support for my boobs meant I had no boobs, so have had to have expanders to get the boobs even before they put proper implants in, but because hes put ones in too small they've been overstretched and its like having a baseball ball on your chest! its so hard and ridged, and hurts if its knocked, just had enough now! xx
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Post by Gleaming on 24th September 2013, 12:43 pm

wow that sound like you've gone through a lot already, sorry to hear about your uncle too. Hope you get some good news soon hun, if you're in that much discomfort it may be worth seeing if you can get an appointment soon just to discuss your concerns xx
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Post by tashab1 on 24th September 2013, 12:48 pm

ive already told them its really uncomfortable, I was just told its got to settle down, which is understandable I know theres a "settling in" period but it can't move anywhere if that makes sense, its just plonked right there lol, I don't have any trouble from my other side which hasn't been fully filled or overfilled, just the overstretched side.  guess im just feeling emotional at the moment as was expecting to hear about my final surgery around now, and to be told I may have to wait another 5 months its just taken its toll now.  I don't think I can even exercise the 18week waiting list rule either as ive already had surgery.   And thank you - its a shock, we are all devastated. x
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Post by jenniferrf1 on 24th September 2013, 1:04 pm

Aww sorry to hear your having such a tough time :( sounds really hard not only physically but mentally also, it's horrible your being kept waiting around like this!! I would be exactly the same so you must be really strong, all I can say is keep pushing them, tell them your in pain and need it sorting... Fingers crossed and hugs xx
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Post by tashab1 on 24th September 2013, 1:11 pm

Thanks Jennifer! it is taking its toll now mentally! its on my mind all the time, because im so close to being finished yet its still so far away!
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Post by Natty29 on 24th September 2013, 1:56 pm

Aww hunni so sorry about this.i just want to give u a hug:hugme:  and say im sorry bout ur uncle, Its a horrible illness :( i hope u get this sorted soon but we r all hear if u need to rant, cry,scream whatever babe.this forum really does help.my therapy :)
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Post by LJR on 24th September 2013, 3:58 pm

Gosh you are having a tough time at the moment, sending you a big hug and hope things improve Hug 
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Post by tashab1 on 24th September 2013, 5:26 pm

Thanks ladies, feeling very emotionally and mentally drained with all this, if i'd have known it would take this long I may have rethought it! x
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Post by tashab1 on 2nd October 2013, 6:04 pm

Well after having a bit of a moan at my surgeon's secretary and my specialist nurse, I've managed to get a cancellation for Monday! Im so relieved to get these damn expanders out! im still in shock but may get some sleep tonight :)
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Post by Gleaming on 2nd October 2013, 6:16 pm

Yaaay :) Aww well done for being pro-active ! Good luck hun xxx
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Post by jenniferrf1 on 2nd October 2013, 6:17 pm

Wow that's great!!! Good luck :D xx
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Post by COOKIE on 2nd October 2013, 6:26 pm

Oh darlin' I can't even begin to imagine how hard this all must be for you. Hearing about your poor uncles condition has probably heightened all the feelings about your boobs that you're going through as well hasn't it babe.

I think when you hear of someone close having a life threatening condition it does make you reflect upon your own life and with you going through all this with the expanders its totally understandable that you would just want this all to be over Hug 

Hopefully Monday will get you another step closer to sorting your boobs babe and about your uncle babe... I'm so, so sorry hun. I'm sure though that you'll cherish the time you have together Hug 

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Post by Becciann84 on 2nd October 2013, 6:42 pm

Aw Hun so sorry to read about your uncle. Big hugs. That's good news about getting an app though, I hope they can get you sorted soon x
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Post by tashab1 on 2nd October 2013, 6:46 pm

Thanks ladies definitely the news I needed! Will hopefully be able to show them off next week :)
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Post by COOKIE on 2nd October 2013, 6:48 pm

fingers crossed  for you Tasha. Xx

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Post by LJR on 2nd October 2013, 7:08 pm

Good news that you are booked in for Monday, and sorry to hear about your Uncle, you are having a rough time x
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Post by tinkerbell24 on 2nd October 2013, 8:37 pm

aw wow good news for getting it doe on Monday
too late for that hug you needed but have one anyway group hug
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Post by tashab1 on 4th October 2013, 12:14 pm

Thanks ladies, only a couple more days to go now! nervous, excited, anxious! all at once eeeekkkkk
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Post by LJR on 4th October 2013, 1:19 pm

Another hug winging it's way to you, excited for you, and I hope it all goes well xx
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